when you get the old feelings

[mike_0678]

well i've been kinda on and off talkin to a girl that is a couple years younger than me, which is good because she isnt playin hard to get or anything and shes not experienced enough to know how us guys work, but after one "could have got some but didnt" date we've talked on the phone and yesterday i was supposed to go to her house if she got back in time from her soccer game, which she didnt so i didnt get another chance. she said she would call me but this didnt happen, but I'm just really gettin those old "**** i dont know what to do and i dont wanna lose it" feelin in other words startin the old afc thing, how am i supposed to recover this, also i really need to see what she wants in this relationship because i'm in a bind i dont know if she wants to be my girl or not. see our first "date" was one of those ones that you cant tell whether it was a friend hang out date or a tryin to hook up date. i had asked her if she would wanna go out to a movie and eat and she said yea that sounds great, then later she calls back and say's "my mom said you can come over and we can watch a movie here" i was like ok no chance to get any since her rents and bros are there, but it turns out its just me and her in the basement with the big screen and in the dark, still i freeze and forget to to anything had the perfect chance and everything, dont get me wrong i thought about it the WHOLE FVCKING time but didnt act on it. i wish i was drunk when this happenend i would got laid and did it with ease haha, i can do this when i'm drunk

 

[Jerky Boi]

Ok, what do you do when you're drunk? You're confident because you don't care about the outcome of the situation. You go for what you want and you never think about the situation at hand. You're ALL action.

Transfer this into real life. Don't overthink the situation. You need to worry less about what you're planning next and think about what's going on NOW. You're already in the clear with this girl. You've gotten her number, you've hung out a few times, and she felt comfortable enough to hang out with you in her basement when no one was around. Now, all you have to do is ACT and make a move.

 

[gravstar]

Come on mate! Grab your balls and get on top of her. I agree with wanking boy. Your old enough to surely know that you bash the crap out of yourself if you miss these opportunities, which sounds like what you've done.

Don't worry, at least you know next time what to do. Come on you can't miss these ones you have to seize them.

 

[mike_0678]

you guys are the greatest, even though i should have already known this ****. thanks jerky and grav