"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When you get attraction signals but resistance to dating

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Possible reasons:

-She isn't comfortable yet with the idea of going out with someone she just met randomly in public
-The attraction started good, but dwindled in the conversation or you revealed too much too early
-What else?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mental blockstack said:
Possible reasons:

-She isn't comfortable yet with the idea of going out with someone she just met randomly in public
-The attraction started good, but dwindled in the conversation or you revealed too much too early
-What else?
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She is grooming you to be an orbiter.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Low self-esteem. They are attracted until you reciprocate the attraction. Once you show you are attracted to them, they lose their attraction for you because they feel you are a lesser man for being attracted to a person like themselves. These chicks are damaged goods. They will only fall for, and chase, the guys who treat them like garbage. The ones with self-respect will actually admire a man for pursuing them.
 
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She has a boyfriend and needs an emotional tampon or orbiter. Try saying "Look b**ch, I'm not into attention seekers."
 
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