"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you get a girls number?

mtlwlu

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When you get a girls number is that a good sign that shes into you? or is it just a friendly casual thing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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daygameguy

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That depends on whether she picks up or not.

Moreover, it can be any of the two scenarios, even AFC guys get numbers, so don't rely on it being an IOI, instead try to gauge her IL during your interaction.

If a girl sets up a 1-on-1 date with me, I'd prolly take it as an IOI... but again, IOIs come and go, you need to think above and beyond that.
 
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