When you start firing on all cylinders, you'll realize that most dates are chores, and you yourself will start flaking. Then you'll finally truly understand how the average woman acts. There just isn't enough time to accomodate them all, and if you have 5 choices you'll become 10 times as picky. You'll also still have mini-slumps, but the same 4 girls who vanish one weekend will all text Monday, so never overreact. The same formula will attract all women, but the same shoes won't.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When You Finally Date Multiple Women
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When it rains it pours. And when in pours HARD you will have more ***** than you can handle. It's a positive feedback loop. You're getting laid, so you are more confident and don't give a fvck. This leads to MORE women and MORE confidence. And the cycle continues. Good post bigneil. Repped.
LorenzoVonM
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Abundance mentality. Next level is not even going on dates. They don't really need it anyway.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Peaks&Valleys
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It's peaks & valleys. Ride those peaks as long as you can, and get the fvck out of the valleys if you happen to find yourself in one. It's a snowball effect, once it's rolling, it's adding more and more, but after some time it gets hot out there and that snowball melts away. That's okay though, there's a new chill in the air, and more snow on the horizon.
Annnnd no, I don't smoke weed....or do any other drugs. I do drink a lot though, but haven't drank anything yet today.
Annnnd no, I don't smoke weed....or do any other drugs. I do drink a lot though, but haven't drank anything yet today.
Word... you also (usually) become a stuck up, conceited, attention-wh0ring *******... especially once you REALLY start attracting women... even especially (x2) when it requires no effort on your part, and they start approaching you. I don't think a lot of guys realize why women act the way they do - until they end up in that position of power. Then, they abuse it all the same. :kick:
The hot / gorgeous girls literally have the world at their feet, and become engulfed in this lifestyle, mindset, and attitude. It surrounds them every day, and they embrace and enable it. Being fake and getting dolled up doesn't happen for no reason - nor would it happen if it didn't come with a reward, and allow them to act like spoiled ****s. This is also why you shouldn't sympathize with, or give the world to hotties, and why treating them like trash is so effective. If everything becomes so easy - you gravitate even MORE towards that which presents a strong challenge. That's why they complain about jerks so much.
This is also why losers will hate on, and try to sabotage / down-size you to no end for being in this position, and why it's best to fly solo once you do. As we were discussing in another thread - no one wants to feel inferior, or like a failure in comparison to others.
A lot of stuff becomes a lot more clear once you're in these positions that others are in, and why they act / think the way they do. ****, you'll be complaining as a result of being spoiled and stuck up, and not getting your way, or having someone go against you (ie, not worship you) - not because everything is "unfair".
I hate people. :flowers:
The hot / gorgeous girls literally have the world at their feet, and become engulfed in this lifestyle, mindset, and attitude. It surrounds them every day, and they embrace and enable it. Being fake and getting dolled up doesn't happen for no reason - nor would it happen if it didn't come with a reward, and allow them to act like spoiled ****s. This is also why you shouldn't sympathize with, or give the world to hotties, and why treating them like trash is so effective. If everything becomes so easy - you gravitate even MORE towards that which presents a strong challenge. That's why they complain about jerks so much.
This is also why losers will hate on, and try to sabotage / down-size you to no end for being in this position, and why it's best to fly solo once you do. As we were discussing in another thread - no one wants to feel inferior, or like a failure in comparison to others.
A lot of stuff becomes a lot more clear once you're in these positions that others are in, and why they act / think the way they do. ****, you'll be complaining as a result of being spoiled and stuck up, and not getting your way, or having someone go against you (ie, not worship you) - not because everything is "unfair".
I hate people. :flowers: