"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when you call and she says 'im a little bit busy right now can we speak later?'

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Don Juan
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Think about it this way. Have you ever exchanged numbers with someone you sort of tolerate but don't really like, from work/college? It's happened to me. Not just females but "friends". They tell me we should hang out, etc or invite me to something.

Now, with such a person whose company you're not really keen on, you still have a tendency to try and let them down gently with excuses or not answer the calls/not call back. You can always blame it on being busy after.

Now contrast that thought with someone you really like. If you have a decent interest level, do you act that way towards them? I personally don't. If a good friend or a chick I like call me, I may not call back on that day, but I make a mental note and make sure I call them back, because subconsciously I know they have something to offer to me that I don't want to miss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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