"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When you break it off with a girl...

Phxxx

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I have heard of many women breaking up with guys with a simple text message.

My question is it a good idea to do the same?

I want you guys to give me your opinion!!!


But I am thinking it would avoid a scene. And Im not going for it but probably make her miss me that much more. Dosen't really matter if it does though.

No contact is an option but she has a 17 yr daughter I can bang...

I know some of you will ask for more details because of that last statement but Im hungover right now so Im not going into it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheCWord

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Phxxx said:
No contact is an option but she has a 17 yr daughter I can bang...
Sounds like this girl's really missing out on a quality guy...
 

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Haha isn't lust a *****. So your saying you don't like this chick and wether breaking up with her over text is ok? Sure I guess. It really is situational but this sounds like you just want gone with her. It's impossible to not have an relationship with the mother but still bang the daughter. Can't have it both ways. (This of course if you were being serious)

It's probably better to phone it but I think anyway you can get the point across is essential. You should defiantly make it known. Don't do the no contact thing. That really is a ****ty way to avoid someone.
 

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Never said I was a quality guy,

but she is missing out...


I was at her place a few nights ago...and beside a watch I broke (heat of passion blah blah blah)

was another mans watch....she seen I looked at it

I turned my back with a ****y a** smirk took a drag off my cig and then heard a thud...glanced and watch 2 was gone...


yes shes BPD....so is her daughter btw

TheCWord....are you a man or woman....havent been on here to see the answer to that one
 

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Sometimes an argument breaks out over text and you don't have a choice. But if you are planning it, i'd plan to do it in person somewhere private..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phxxx

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Sent her a text that said stop by if you're not working.

She said ok, then texted back its going to be a little bit, I said alright.

Then this is what I wrote next



No need to stop by, pay close attention to the first part....ya broken sums it up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gab7rrzOr2I





she said "so ur done"

then said "thats funny tho"



Don't think its just BPD...unless all women in USA are BPD.... maybe thats it lol
 
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