"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When you break it off with a girl...

Phxxx

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I have heard of many women breaking up with guys with a simple text message.

My question is it a good idea to do the same?

I want you guys to give me your opinion!!!


But I am thinking it would avoid a scene. And Im not going for it but probably make her miss me that much more. Dosen't really matter if it does though.

No contact is an option but she has a 17 yr daughter I can bang...

I know some of you will ask for more details because of that last statement but Im hungover right now so Im not going into it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheCWord

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Phxxx said:
No contact is an option but she has a 17 yr daughter I can bang...
Sounds like this girl's really missing out on a quality guy...
 

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Haha isn't lust a *****. So your saying you don't like this chick and wether breaking up with her over text is ok? Sure I guess. It really is situational but this sounds like you just want gone with her. It's impossible to not have an relationship with the mother but still bang the daughter. Can't have it both ways. (This of course if you were being serious)

It's probably better to phone it but I think anyway you can get the point across is essential. You should defiantly make it known. Don't do the no contact thing. That really is a ****ty way to avoid someone.
 

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Never said I was a quality guy,

but she is missing out...


I was at her place a few nights ago...and beside a watch I broke (heat of passion blah blah blah)

was another mans watch....she seen I looked at it

I turned my back with a ****y a** smirk took a drag off my cig and then heard a thud...glanced and watch 2 was gone...


yes shes BPD....so is her daughter btw

TheCWord....are you a man or woman....havent been on here to see the answer to that one
 

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Sometimes an argument breaks out over text and you don't have a choice. But if you are planning it, i'd plan to do it in person somewhere private..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sent her a text that said stop by if you're not working.

She said ok, then texted back its going to be a little bit, I said alright.

Then this is what I wrote next



No need to stop by, pay close attention to the first part....ya broken sums it up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gab7rrzOr2I





she said "so ur done"

then said "thats funny tho"



Don't think its just BPD...unless all women in USA are BPD.... maybe thats it lol
 
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