"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When you ask a girl out..

Somedude8749

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what do you say? just wanna go out with me or is there something else to it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Asking out on a date?
"Hey I'm going to a ??? this weekend, you should come."

Or did you mean like "asking out" to be your girlfriend ?
 

Crazy Asian

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well you should ask her to hang out with a group of people, then hang out with her again, but this time alone. And she'll get the point. Thats how i'd do it anyway, i guess you could just straight out and ask her, but make sure she's alone.
 
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