"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When you are out with HB10, guys giving you dirty looks

floydb25

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Cremasta said:
When you're out with your HB10, there's only two groups of people who will be checking you out:
1. Gay men who like the look of you and are annoyed you're playing for the wrong team, and
2. Women who are wondering what's so awesome about you that you've got a HB10.

All the straight guys are too busy staring at your HB10 to even realise you exist.
Complete and total lies. All the straight guys look at her THEN you to see if you "match up". Which, of course, since you're not them (or one of their butt-****ing, cliquey boyfriends), you don't. They also talk a lot of **** to themselves or their boyfriend's - which, if you befriend them, get to hear about.

The hate, jealousy, and white-knighting is fierce among men, and the ego-competition is huge. Men talk non-stop **** if you're attracting or dating hotties, and try to sabotage to the best of their ability. It goes with the mantra, "people who don't have **** hate those who do".

I've experienced this with myself, friends who were talking **** about others, random strangers in my vicinity... It's always a situation where those who CAN'T get something tear down, deny, bully, or compete against those who do. Never fails. People who can, don't give a damn... only the losers talk ****, because they're insecure and worthless... Their ego can't handle it, since it's pretty much all they have.

It typically starts with them (losers) hoping that you're not a couple; just friends; she's not interested; etc. They're cool with this... In fact, they get off on it. When they find out it ISN'T the case - they act like the retarded animals they are, and start saying things like "you're ugly; she doesn't like you" - while telling their boyfriend's about how he could have her easily, and that she was checking him out, and you're nothing. Then they go home and cry while gaying each other off.

****ing people.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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floydb25 said:
Complete and total lies. All the straight guys look at her THEN you to see if you "match up". Which, of course, since you're not them (or one of their butt-****ing, cliquey boyfriends), you don't. They also talk a lot of **** to themselves or their boyfriend's - which, if you befriend them, get to hear about.

The hate, jealousy, and white-knighting is fierce among men, and the ego-competition is huge. Men talk non-stop **** if you're attracting or dating hotties, and try to sabotage to the best of their ability. It goes with the mantra, "people who don't have **** hate those who do".

I've experienced this with myself, friends who were talking **** about others, random strangers in my vicinity... It's always a situation where those who CAN'T get something tear down, deny, bully, or compete against those who do. Never fails. People who can, don't give a damn... only the losers talk ****, because they're insecure and worthless... Their ego can't handle it, since it's pretty much all they have.

It typically starts with them (losers) hoping that you're not a couple; just friends; she's not interested; etc. They're cool with this... In fact, they get off on it. When they find out it ISN'T the case - they act like the retarded animals they are, and start saying things like "you're ugly; she doesn't like you" - while telling their boyfriend's about how he could have her easily, and that she was checking him out, and you're nothing. Then they go home and cry while gaying each other off.

****ing people.
Geez Floyd! I've never had to deal with any of that rubbish, or maybe I just didn't take any notice of it happening... I don't know what NC stands for on your location, but you've got to get out of there mate. Sounds like the place is full of wankers!
 

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Cremasta said:
Geez Floyd! I've never had to deal with any of that rubbish, or maybe I just didn't take any notice of it happening... I don't know what NC stands for on your location, but you've got to get out of there mate. Sounds like the place is full of wankers!
Ha ha... I actually moved away from where this was all occuring TO North Carolina. And yes, it was the worst place ever. NC is a God-send in comparison. I also had several issues and got tangled up in all the wrong crowds for 2 decades.
 

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TheLoner said:
Many times when I am out with HB10,
^^^This is one of your best lines yet.

To the rest of you guys who have written out long, well thought out, sound advice.....really????

I'm wondering what you're like in real life Loner. Are you another poster sitting back and laughing his ass off? Some girl on here for kicks. You know how to get a thread started, no matter how ridiculous your claims are. Maybe the others are just accepting of you, like a bot who spits out random scenarios. Whatever works. :up:
 
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