"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When you’re told not to try, but do It anyway

tesla8520

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They advise against it.
They really tell you not to do it.
Don't start a relationship at work.

Yet, he moves for work, where in the meantime he becomes friends with the owner's daughter, no malice intended, really, and their friendship, after six months, turns into something more. It becomes a relationship, and they set themselves the goal of managing her hotel and restaurant. He becomes an incredibly famous chef, but remains a fairly upright person, loved by everyone.

This is what happens to very few people, but if they had never started this relationship, none of this would have happened.
No one here would ever put themselves in the position of "depending" on something, yet some see it as a challenge, and for some it works.
Look like when two people works on somethng togheter, that could last a lifetime

Genuinely interested on what do you think about this

Cannavacciuolo, now a renowned Michelin-starred chef and television personality, met Cinzia when he was working for her family at a restaurant/hotel on Lake Orta.

At first, they were simply colleagues and friends; only over time did their relationship develop into a lasting love story and a true professional partnership.

Together, they transformed Villa Crespi into an internationally renowned luxury hotel and restaurant (now also Michelin-starred).

Despite the difficulties and risks of combining work and romance, their relationship was a positive challenge that led to great results.
http://instagr.am/p/CzYmBBXIPrP/
Look like he found the right woman. And the right one has made possible for him.to become a high value man
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Search around hard enough, and you'll always find a handful of instances in which someone APPEARS* to have transcended the facts of life.... Out of a few million high school drop-outs, you'll perhaps find 1 Johnny Depp who was a TV star by his early 20s, and perhaps another Eddie Little(PBUH)who became an acclaimed novelist and journo, after spending the first 3 decades of his life as a tween runaway, junkie, and full-time criminal**. Believing oneself to be such an exception is almost always a delusion/wishful thinking


*We're all ignorant as to what's REALLY taking place in Cannavacciuolo's home, when the cameras ain't rolling... For all we know, dude's decided that he's actually gay, and is rolling around in the sheets with the cabana boy every night. While Cinzia has decided to stay in the marriage and put on a happy face in public for the sake of business, taken up Cannavacciuolo's half-brother subsequently


**Even EL paid a high price for the unconventional lifestyle he chose https://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/Eddie-Little-outlaw-novelist-of-L-A-2615222.php
 
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