When Women You've Dated Watch You Pick Up Other Women

[Desdinova]

To me, there's nothing more victorious than having a woman you're interested in (or have previously been interested in) watch you pick up another woman. Although there may have been more, I have two memorable experiences.

The first experience was with the woman who drove me to this website. After we had been split up for a year, she wanted to get together and "talk". So I invited her out to one of my favourite hangouts. Instead of sitting there and "talking" with her, I spent the entire evening working the room. The night ended when she watched me get another girl's phone number. She got up to leave and said "well, maybe we can talk next time". Sure baby, whatever!

The other situation is a bit backwards, but I think is still relevant... My current GF pursued me for two years before I eventually agreed to give her a shot. In those two years, she had the privelage of watching me pick up another woman.

This was one of those seductions that went 100% flawlessly. The chick was in a short denim skirt and a red top which was ready to spill her t1ts out of it like a clumsy child. I said to one of my friends, "I like that! I'm going to make that mine!" And I did.

I had fun with her, initiated kino, danced with her, and got her number. I successfully dated her for six months afterwards.


Anyone have any good stories to share? Let's hear them!

 

[nmartinez12443]

Personally, I think it's classless to do this. If I see my ex anywhere out at a bar I leave. Honestly, even if we took the game of rsd Tyler, mystery, and roosh and melded it with looks of brad Pitt, a hb7 would still have more power to get most if not any single guy at a bar by being direct. Your ex will do this right in front of you and I don't have time for all this back and forth mind games, I just get out and keep the NC.

This is coming from a guy whose ex told him, "I don't know why I even like you and I can do so much better than you" and broke up with me because she didn't want to "settle". Even with all that I would not bring a girl I'm dating purposely to her to make her feel like ****. Now if she happens to see you out with a girl that's different, but even so I'm leaving.

 

[nmartinez12443]

However, I will share a story.

I was causally dating a girl let's call her "Megan"and one time I was talking to this hb6 at bar when all of a sudden this Megan girl out of no where steps directly between me and this girl. She's faces me and turns around looks the hb6 girl up and down and says twice "REALLY". She leaves crying, without skipping a beat I keep talking to this hb6 as if nothing happened. The hb6 was pretty emotionally shocked and left, I got like 15 texts and call from Megan later on.

 

[fastlife]

Personally, I think it's classless to do this. If I see my ex anywhere out at a bar I leave. Honestly, even if we took the game of rsd Tyler, mystery, and roosh and melded it with looks of brad Pitt, a hb7 would still have more power to get most if not any single guy at a bar by being direct. Your ex will do this right in front of you and I don't have time for all this back and forth mind games, I just get out and keep the NC.

This is coming from a guy whose ex told him, "I don't know why I even like you and I can do so much better than you" and broke up with me because she didn't want to "settle". Even with all that I would not bring a girl I'm dating purposely to her to make her feel like ****. Now if she happens to see you out with a girl that's different, but even so I'm leaving.

I think your intentions are honorable here, but they represent a fundamental misunderstanding of how & what women respond to. Women, whether you’re with them or they dumped you or you’re just meeting them want to know that you can succeed with other girls. It boosts their status; it reaffirms their life choices and solidifies your status in their minds (but only if the girl they see you with is on their level or higher).

They don’t experience it how it would feel from your perspective if you were to see your ex with a new guy—since that represents an evolutionary failure on your end. Sperm cheap; eggs expensive—that sort of thing.

I would never advocate being vindictive or reaction-seeking, just unapologetic about going after what you want & not shackling yourself to the emotional states of people who no longer play an active role in your life. You’re giving your ex way too much control over your life & your available options.

Class doesn’t get you azz lol. This situation is unavoidable if you are meeting enough women & going out regularly. Usually these situations end well (especially if you hold frame—and don’t cave to social pressure or believe yourself to be a ‘bad guy, fvckboy, creep’ or whatever other term the FI uses to shame men to be good little useful boys). I’ve been in -contained environments with 3 different girls I’ve been involved with (totally incidental). I spoke to all of them, introduced them to each other—they all did some weird thing where they relentlessly complimented each other. And all of them ended up liking me the better for it.

Women want what other women want.

 

[AttackFormation]

I think your intentions are honorable here, but they represent a fundamental misunderstanding of how & what women respond to. Women, whether you’re with them or they dumped you or you’re just meeting them want to know that you can succeed with other girls. It boosts their status; it reaffirms their life choices and solidifies your status in their minds (but only if the girl they see you with is on their level or higher).

They don’t experience it how it would feel from your perspective if you were to see your ex with a new guy—since that represents an evolutionary failure on your end. Sperm cheap; eggs expensive—that sort of thing.

I would never advocate being vindictive or reaction-seeking, just unapologetic about going after what you want & not shackling yourself to the emotional states of people who no longer play an active role in your life. You’re giving your ex way too much control over your life & your available options.

Class doesn’t get you azz lol. This situation is unavoidable if you are meeting enough women & going out regularly. Usually these situations end well (especially if you hold frame—and don’t cave to social pressure or believe yourself to be a ‘bad guy, fvckboy, creep’ or whatever other term the FI uses to shame men to be good little useful boys). I’ve been in -contained environments with 3 different girls I’ve been involved with (totally incidental). I spoke to all of them, introduced them to each other—they all did some weird thing where they relentlessly complimented each other. And all of them ended up liking me the better for it.

Women want what other women want.

Sexual selection 101

"Hey baby, have you seen these women flirting back and forth with me? Imagine how attractive I have to be for multiple other girls to want me. I'm better than the other men. If you have sex with me, your kids can be this hot too and everyone will want a piece of them. Come here..."