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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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When women think your older/younger than you really are

DonMEgaHoss

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It's been weird lately, in a good way or so I think. Most all the girls that I talk or hang with all think Im older than Im actually am. Like Im 19 and they think Im like 24 or somewhere mid twenties. Which sorta shocked me when they first asked or guessed at my age. I got a hot bartender I dunno least a 7 in the shwwwing-factor. Lol. Givin' me those bedroom eyes, I sat down at the bar chatted for a bit while waiting to pick up some grub. Bought me a drink and all and the other bartenders didnt even bother to ID me which I unusual as of late. Just wanna hear some comments on the whole age assumption thang..:woo:
 

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Desire

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Originally posted by DonMEgaHoss
It's been weird lately, in a good way or so I think. Most all the girls that I talk or hang with all think Im older than Im actually am. Like Im 19 and they think Im like 24 or somewhere mid twenties. Which sorta shocked me when they first asked or guessed at my age. I got a hot bartender I dunno least a 7 in the shwwwing-factor. Lol. Givin' me those bedroom eyes, I sat down at the bar chatted for a bit while waiting to pick up some grub. Bought me a drink and all and the other bartenders didnt even bother to ID me which I unusual as of late. Just wanna hear some comments on the whole age assumption thang..:woo:

I'm 40 years old. I was in Greece this summer and my buddy (35)and I met two 18 years old girls from Sweden. We said we where 25 and 28 and we went together with them that night. I don't think they would have been with us if we told our real age. Age is not important but how you feel and look, I think.
 

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If they are way off on your age, I would just tell them that they would be a poor witness to the police if someone robbed this place. The robber would be happy if you are the witness.
 
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