"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When women talk in minimum what does that mean ?

evan12

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I notice women every where work, family relatives , etc always write messages or emails with minimum possible words(or one word answer ) . It kind of bother me sometimes because I feel like it is disrespect. Is there any message behind that or I am just reading too much
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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evan12 said:
I notice women every where work, family relatives , etc always write messages or emails with minimum possible words(or one word answer ) . It kind of bother me sometimes because I feel like it is disrespect. Is there any message behind that or I am just reading too much
Context?

Generally, its a sign of lack of interest to devote anymore time to a message in whatever it was about.
 

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With out knowing the context, it would be difficult to exactly say. However generally it means they don't have much interest/annoyed by you.
 
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