"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When women stare at you....................

Badmannaz

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okay yea so i've been getting fit...(i think this is the easiest way to get hotter girls) so what i don't know but kinda do is when a women glances your way....
this is what i think
1st glance= nothing

2nd glance= probably still nothing but slight chance she's thinking of you

3 and up = she thinks your hott


idk i've been noticing this lately, more n more women are glancing at me...not one or 2 times but 3 and up...i wanted to ask other guys about this how do you feel and what does it mean....:crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bvbidd

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As long as they don't have a disgusted look then the more they stare at you obviously the better, they want to see you.

When they look at you with really wide open eyes and with their mouth sort of open with a bit of a smile. That usually means they think your really hot.
 

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What does it mean when she stares at you for a very long time.
 

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Damn guys, get up on it.

The first glance is an AI (approach invitation) the second is an AI, the thrid glance is an AI. The forth will NEVER come because she has lost interance. The thrid glance is the best time go.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Damn guys, get up on it...
For real! Stop analysing and approach! Find out what it means first hand! :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ace of Flames

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I love to catch girls looking at me. When I turn around and notice them, they usually get all shy and turn away. Then a few minutes later I'll catch them again. Its so funny to see how they react.

When you think about it, its like a reversal. Back in the AFC days, you would always be looking at the girl you liked, and then look away when she noticed you. If everything holds true, you'd think those girls checking you out like you as well. Go figure.
 

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i know all about the glances...i wanted some feedback on it....and this has been happening more and more to me (thx to the gym) girls are starting to glance your way...this should be the 1st AI when your doing cold approaches..like chris rock said...women know from the moment they lay eyes on you if your good enough for them..so when there throwing AI's we as guys should always capitalize on them..it was this women (about mid 30's) staring me down today about a hb8 (nice pair of tits cute face) now, i'm only 18...she even was infront of me...and turned around to look at me..so i know what was up...i got Amog'd but i wasn't planning on making a move....
there's a good way of looking at a women w/o her feeling she's been caught...i've been turning my head fast to look in other directions to see if they are looking, using perpheral vision..(looking at something but focusing out the corner of your eye). and keeping a non-chalant look on my face like i have no idea...but yea..the more looks the more confidence...
 

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This is great that the subject of 'eye contact' came up here. Myself and some other PUA in my area have developed a field exercise to sharpen our eye contact skillz...its actually pretty simple. It a way for you to become oblivious to the social pressure of getting caught starring.

We live in NYC so walking down any street wil provide ample opportunities to encounter HBs. This could work by you just as long as you don't live in some far-off remote area of the globe. Walking down the street starts with the walk. I can not stress how important the 'walk' is. Now, I am not saying that you have to glob on the swagger but a confident, chill'd out walk is everything (especially when entering a bar or when you are in a this present street scenario) Remember shoulder's back and have some rhythm in your step...this non-verbal communication is essential.

When walking down a street (suggested doing it alone and not w/ a group of guys) make eye contact with an HB in the distance. As she comes closer, don't drop the gaze....hold it until she drops it. Offer a small little wrinkle of a smile. Do this a bunch of times a day and this will groom your eye contact skills. Eventually, you will become immune to the social pressure of developing excuses for not offering a stare.
 

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Dude, dont let it get to the fourth...like whyshy said, the first is an invitation...as is the second and third.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damn this whole E.C. thing again.

I'm not minimizing the importance of E.C. It's probably one of the best indicators we have in the absence of anything else whether or not a chick is even someone we should spend our energy on.

However once we start dissecting it to this level it turns into a compulsion. Take it as it comes and go with your instincts. Three glances? WTF is that?

Maybe she wants to make sure this goofy freak is still looking at her. Maybe she wants to re-affirm her own hotness without regard for your lame ass. Or maybe she is wrapped in you and wants you NOW.

Bottom line is, E.C. is a very simple principle, don't cloud it up with analysis.
 

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...Bottom line is, E.C. is a very simple principle, don't cloud it up with analysis.
:up:
 

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i giggle like a little girl when women look at me ..... o_O

its just eye contact , dont over-analize it ...
 
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