"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

WHen women play hard to get or sh1t test

verysuave

Banned
Joined
Oct 3, 2006
Messages
667
Reaction score
2
okay folks heres a good one,

i noticed some women play "hard to get". A good example

it was just me and this chick late at night in class.. (i know she likes me cuz she got my number from someone who knows me and called me. Anyway, back to the topic here..)

She brought up "i feel like having a burger later on tonight.
me: "lets go IN N Out then"
hb: "oh u you know, i shouldn't eat burgers after 10pm. It's bad"
me: "so, i eat whenever i want"

i ended up leaving her and didn't have time to be gaming her/convincing to go hang out after. I got other things going on already with me and don't need that pu55y of hers. (I still wana hit it cause she told me also, that her tubes are tied )

What would you guys have done at the moment? just leave and not even bother passing or dealing with that sh1t test?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Crazy Asian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2007
Messages
1,060
Reaction score
9
Age
34
think about if YOU would want a burger.
then make ur decision based on that.

cause in your case, she made you go get the burger.
 

NickSCFC2000

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2007
Messages
218
Reaction score
1
She definately wasn't playing hard to get, **** tests come after the first couple of dates.
 

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
'Sure, like you never do anything bad? You a good little girl scout are ya? Little goody two-shoes won't eat meat after 10 like a fat slut would? That it, huh?' etc
 

MikeYikes122

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2003
Messages
839
Reaction score
30
I don't think is much of anything man. No sh!t test, not her playing hard to get. I think it's just like she says. She doesn't want to eat In-N-Out after 10 pm.

Besides, she is right, eating that kind of food that late at night is bad for you. That sh!t will catch up with you real quick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

verysuave

Banned
Joined
Oct 3, 2006
Messages
667
Reaction score
2
Nighthawk said:
'Sure, like you never do anything bad? You a good little girl scout are ya? Little goody two-shoes won't eat meat after 10 like a fat slut would? That it, huh?' etc
damn, i shouldve have said something like that. I'm usually good at comebacks and being a smart ass. There are just MOMENTS when things tense up a little and you get caught off guard.

Anyway, tnx fellas. My manager who is friends with her invited me to go drink with my manager (and i think she will be there too). I'm not planning on going to that tonight....., when I do go out with her, it will be sometime this week and it will be just me and her and nobody else
 
Top