When Women Keeping it Real Goes Wrong

[Big Nuts]

I tell a girl I never kiss on the first date to show her I am in control of my sex drive.

Then I try my best to fvck her on the first date.

 

[donking]

I had a second date with this chick and went in for the kiss. After, she told me:

I know you've been waiting for that

"You damn right you dirty little slut." with a wink

 

[donking]

There's a genuine reason why I believe most women do NOT have an agenda nor a game plan when it comes to dating men. Have you ever heard a group of women try to make plans? It doesn't really matter what it is whether it be a baby/wedding shower or just getting together with a bunch of friends. They constantly get side-tracked with some dumbass gossip, they can't decide who's going to pick up who, how they're going to get to the destination, what day to have it on, etc etc. It literally takes them FOREVER to come up with some kind of a plan, and even when they do come to some kind of conclusion, their plan isn't rock solid. I cannot imagine a woman coming up with a plan to control a man unless she's already involved with him and he's royally pissed her off. Even then, they usually don't follow through with their plan. Why? Because they don't trust themselves, they're generally not self-confident, and they're uncertain of the outcome. This is why women look to their men to make the definitive rock-solid plans, and trust them to follow through with it.

It's much easier to lead a woman than to allow her to lead you. Next time you have a date set with a woman, tell her that she can decide where to go, what to do, and at what time. Chances are she's going to come up with nothing.

...and that's how good your "power-hungry" woman is with planning to control your life.

women are no good at plans until marriage. then they become experts.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

EDIT: just re-read thread again, I'll go back to my first post.

Either way, she's stupid. I've dated girls like this, they just can't let it go. They always have something dumb to say at all the wrong times.

The advice on this thread is great in theory but BDJ's onto something. He knows what he's talking about. Floyd had it right. To these types of women it's ALWAYS a game. This is not her just throwing out a tease or a little $hit test. To these types there will always be $hit tests, always. They are a complete and utter head ache, eventually, when you do handle all of her bull $hit and games, and dumb $hit that comes out of her mouth, and possibly fvck her. You will be drained, and worse off than you were.

I'm the guy who's always trying to figure out a way. If she puts up a front, great, I like a challenge. I'll be the last person to next someone, but in this case IMO, it's is a 100% next-able situation. It's not a front, there isn't a shield you've got to get through, it's who she is.

You gotta pick your battles, this is not one of them..

 

[AAAgent]

There's a genuine reason why I believe most women do NOT have an agenda nor a game plan when it comes to dating men. Have you ever heard a group of women try to make plans? It doesn't really matter what it is whether it be a baby/wedding shower or just getting together with a bunch of friends. They constantly get side-tracked with some dumbass gossip, they can't decide who's going to pick up who, how they're going to get to the destination, what day to have it on, etc etc. It literally takes them FOREVER to come up with some kind of a plan, and even when they do come to some kind of conclusion, their plan isn't rock solid. I cannot imagine a woman coming up with a plan to control a man unless she's already involved with him and he's royally pissed her off. Even then, they usually don't follow through with their plan. Why? Because they don't trust themselves, they're generally not self-confident, and they're uncertain of the outcome. This is why women look to their men to make the definitive rock-solid plans, and trust them to follow through with it.

It's much easier to lead a woman than to allow her to lead you. Next time you have a date set with a woman, tell her that she can decide where to go, what to do, and at what time. Chances are she's going to come up with nothing.

...and that's how good your "power-hungry" woman is with planning to control your life.

Des, I believe city girls and suburban country girls are two different breeds. BDJ, I believe resides in a city as do I. These girls play a sh1t ton of games and always try to get their cake and eat it too because they get plenty of play in the city. I had a girl who had a boyfriend and agreed to get drinks with me and invited me over her apartment that same night. I found out later she had a boyfriend and i nexted her right away (we are kind of in the same social circle and i did not want to deal with that). I hear about other girls that have boyfriends talking about fvcking bankers and trying to get the guys to take her on vacations and upgrading to guys with more money. You should hear of the dumb things they say when they're trying to seduce a guy......I just smh and feel bad for them. No smart guy would marry a girl like that. DJ's are looking for someone to enrich and make a part of their life, not suck out the good stuff out of them.

sure the girls may not have a game plan or know where they'll end up....but they always act in the moment and many make dumba$$ decisions like BDJ's girl. I had a girl talk about all her ex boyfriends and then talk about how guys hit on her all the time in her pharm school and this is while I'm in her room alone with her. I get turned off when women don't know how to act like women, especially on a date or in the bedroom.

 

[Jitterbug]

I'm generally lenient because I'm not trying to girlfriend them up.

Feel free to set your own standards. It's your dating life.

Sure it may sound a little harsh NEXTing her for that, and that's what we're telling you here. But you know what, women have NEXTed men for much much less. If your gut doesn't feel good about this chick, NEXT her. Truth be told, I've NEXTed women for much less myself.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

About these girls: There's something wrong with their brains, it's warped in a way, they just can't compute a normal flow of how a relationship progresses. Even when you call them out on it, they will admit they're fvcked in the head. But once things get going again they will fall back to their psychological games, they know no other way. It's as natural to them as breathing. They are fvcked, and a nightmare, stay away.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

You went on two dates with her. There must be other things that tipped you off to how she was as a person. Was it a constant wrestle for frame that caused an underlying tension? That is something that can be exhausting. Myself, I would not have bailed after just that, especially since I'm not out to get a girlfriend.