"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When women don't look down to the ground after you hold eyecontact

Lostsoul85

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1)Lots of times when i catch women checking me out and hold eye contact when they look away there head is still level.They don't turn their head away and look down to the ground as a sign of submission.This NEVER happens to me.
Does this mean that the women are not interested?

Bodylanguage experts will tell you that when women look away and look down towards the ground that is a sign of submission but to me they just look away without looking down and this kind of puzzles me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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devilkingx2

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only one sign doesn't prove anything, look for a large number of IOIs
 

salinechow

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More than likely you are correct in assuming that this means they are not into you. Know what though... GO FIND OUT. Speaking with them will better qualify or dismiss your doubts. Get rejected instead of rejecting yourself! I bet even if she wasnt interested at first your boldness of asking or just straight talking with her will make her A LOT more intersted than if you just act like a shadow.

Actually now that I think about it this is an area where I internalize the info here pretty well. I am hooking up with an HB8.5, dare I say 9 right now becasue of this very approach. Actually, she even told me she wasnt interested but I convinced her otherwise. At least for now. :)

Rejection is always better than regret.

Memorize that and say 100 times per week.
 
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