"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When women don't follow through with bets

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Ok, so here's the deal.
Today we had a thing at school called class day. I gamed an HB I'd known and used Style's Five Questions game on her. I bet on a drink. After winning without a problem, she didn't follow through. How might I go about this to guarantee I get my end of the deal?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kind of joke about it once or twice, if nothing comes of it, drop it.
 
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Use reverse psychology. Say that you don't want her to buy you a drink anymore. Make it sound like you don't give a ****. Then, she will want to buy your attention back.
 
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The problem is you might sound desperate asking for it (it's just a drink) but you sound weak if you let her push you around.
I'd act annoyed around her, and note that she was unfaithful to her part of the bet, making her worth as untrustworthy for any future agreements.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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