Sowatchasayin
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What are the things women look for that lets them believe a guy is a player?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
when women assume your a PLAYER?
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I think they believe that if you happen to be a real "good looking" guy.
jakethasnake
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slashco summed it up, pretty much. I can be like that, sometimes. 
Arrrgh! How do you make your lines NOT sound rehearsed? That's what I want to know...
Arrrgh! How do you make your lines NOT sound rehearsed? That's what I want to know...jake,
If you want your lines to sound unrehearsed, try being original and actually saying something that hasn't already been said. *SLAP* Ok... perhaps your already doing that.. in which case, the best way is to use filler words and phrases such as,
"See where I'm coming from here?"
"This is what i've been trying to say all along"
"Hopefully what i'm about to say will put all the pieces together"
"This is the best part of it..."
Basically use a phrase the describes what you are already saying. It takes an objective 3rd person role for a quick moment and breaks the cycle of "perhaps this rehearsed". Do you see where i'm going with this?
*The above line is an example of breaking the cycle... Now we're back in the cycle but for that brief moment we left it.. Does that make sense?*
*See, I did it again. =)*
If you want your lines to sound unrehearsed, try being original and actually saying something that hasn't already been said. *SLAP* Ok... perhaps your already doing that.. in which case, the best way is to use filler words and phrases such as,
"See where I'm coming from here?"
"This is what i've been trying to say all along"
"Hopefully what i'm about to say will put all the pieces together"
"This is the best part of it..."
Basically use a phrase the describes what you are already saying. It takes an objective 3rd person role for a quick moment and breaks the cycle of "perhaps this rehearsed". Do you see where i'm going with this?
*The above line is an example of breaking the cycle... Now we're back in the cycle but for that brief moment we left it.. Does that make sense?*
*See, I did it again. =)*
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.