"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When was the last time you made love?

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Wow, what's happening? I can't even discuss the topic of sex with my fellow Mature Men anymore?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Die Hard said:
Wow, what's happening? I can't even discuss the topic of sex with my fellow Mature Men anymore?
It's been a rule since even before I got here.
 

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Bvllsh!t... I just took a look at the stickied rules and it makes no mention. And even if it were some "secret" rule, there have been thousands of similar threads which were not moved.

Things are weird on SoSuave lately, obviously the administrator wants to take this place in another direction but no one tells us sh!t about it and we just have to find out along the way.
 

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Die Hard said:
Things are weird on SoSuave lately, obviously the administrator wants to take this place in another direction but no one tells us sh!t about it and we just have to find out along the way.
Employment is slavery.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This place is not a democracy, never was. The owner is certainly not going to take a poll every time he wants to create, change, or enforce an existing rule.

The rule has always been that all sex-related posts go to Anything Else. The fact that we have at times been lax in enforcing it doesn't negate it.

Since we have been reminded of the necessity to enforce the rule, we are doing so. Case closed.
 
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