How do you handle two plates that are acquaintances?
Background on my situation: I'm a senior in college. Met B about 2 weeks ago, made out with her that night. I hadn't seen her since then. Met G at a bar Thursday night, made out with her.
I stupidly invite both to a party at my house last night, expecting only one to show up because both their IL isn't through the roof. Big mistake :nono: Both show up.
I do my thing, and since its my party I go into "host" mode. Later on, I see them talking to each other so I'm thinking they just met etc. They continue talking and go off to have a bathroom talk (girls can’t pee alone).
Now I am thinking well fvck…and don’t know what to do, they definitely went to talk about me (not being ****y, turns out to be true). The party winds down from 70ish people to 15 and both stick around. G’s ride shows up while B is on the other side of the house, so I walk her out and kiss her goodbye.
Now B is still at my place so I decide I should go in for the kill. We make out for a bit while she sits on my lap and she turns to me and says “What about G??”
I just brushed it off and kept kissing her. She ends up leaving shortly after.
Can anyone offer advice? I risk being labeled a “player” yet both of these girls are 9’s in my eyes. In a way it has raised their IL because women are competitive, yet is making them cautious of me.
Background on my situation: I'm a senior in college. Met B about 2 weeks ago, made out with her that night. I hadn't seen her since then. Met G at a bar Thursday night, made out with her.
I stupidly invite both to a party at my house last night, expecting only one to show up because both their IL isn't through the roof. Big mistake :nono: Both show up.
I do my thing, and since its my party I go into "host" mode. Later on, I see them talking to each other so I'm thinking they just met etc. They continue talking and go off to have a bathroom talk (girls can’t pee alone).
Now I am thinking well fvck…and don’t know what to do, they definitely went to talk about me (not being ****y, turns out to be true). The party winds down from 70ish people to 15 and both stick around. G’s ride shows up while B is on the other side of the house, so I walk her out and kiss her goodbye.
Now B is still at my place so I decide I should go in for the kill. We make out for a bit while she sits on my lap and she turns to me and says “What about G??”
I just brushed it off and kept kissing her. She ends up leaving shortly after.
Can anyone offer advice? I risk being labeled a “player” yet both of these girls are 9’s in my eyes. In a way it has raised their IL because women are competitive, yet is making them cautious of me.
