when to NEXT a girl

[andy surianto]

hi guys.
give me some advice over here...
first of al, sory for my terrible english. hoe u guys can undertand it. i am not a native speaker of english.

i've been wondering wether i should next this girl or not...

i met her bout 2 months ago in friendster....
u guys do know what is friendster rite?
she was junior from high school

then i ask fro her number... and started calling her...
after playing ****y and funny things toward her...
she ask me out twice.... and i turned her down...
cuz i am busy.... chasing my final assignment dateline

bout two weeks ago she ask me out again...
i though she mus be into me so much.. that she will ask the third time.
but then... she cancelled it at the last moment...tellin me she was tired. and she said that we should meet next week.
the week after that she cancelled the date again...
and she changed her cell phone number
i though she must lost interest in me...
but then she message me a couple of days later via IM saying this...
"hei, how are u..
i've got myself a new cell phone.
here is my neew number.... ng... do you wnna know it..."
i reply, "hei... that's an unusual question... are u going to give me the number or not?"
she replied: hehhee. this number isn't fixed yet... i'll let know my new number after i confirmed that i'll use this number permanently...'

well.... it has been a week since then... heard nothing from her... i wonder why she didn't just give me her number, eventhough she will not use that number permanently.

i am a lil bit confused... wether she is interested or not....
what should i do the next time she call...

thx u guys...

 

[Sweetcheeks]

You should have "Nexted" her...

You should have erased her number after she broke that second date with you.

Younger girls are more often than not attention *****s. They are just beginning to experiment with their power of female attraction on older men to get what they want. It is a game to them.

It is with these girls in particular that it is important to play hard to get.

 

[andy surianto]

clarification

oh i forgot to mentioned this.
she was my junior in high school.
but now i am a third year graduate student in an university.
and she is a first year graduate student in other university.
but we are in the same city...
when she message me by intenet i dun remember her.
i dun really know her back then...
she know me, cuz i was kinda popular in my high school.

so.. it has been 3 years ididn't see her