"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When to make a move (mainly for highschoolers)

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If you like a girl, and you have even the slightest feeling she likes you, then 99.9% of the time she does (and NO, your 'special' case does not fall into the 0.1% of cases, thats reserved for deluded sycos).

Nothing else matters. Don't come on here and ask if she likes you. She does.

If you do nothing else ask her god damn number, she will give it to you. You will ask her to do something, and she will be happy to.

Or, you can wait, and wait and wait and wait. She will; get a boyfriend (not you), lose interest, leave, etc. I've lost way too many great girls, who were interested in me becasue I was too much of a wussy boy.

For the love of god, just ask her number, and ask her out. Every other tip is second to this. You can't do anything else (apply tips, etc) without grabbing your balls and actually asking her out.

JUST ASK HER OUT RIGHT NOW!!!! DONT YOU DARE PUT IT OFF FOR ANOTHER MOMENT!!!!!! everything rests on you asking her out as soon as you can
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thanks man. Thats what I have learnt so far, on my journey to DJhood. which is the same journey to manhood.
 
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A real dj does not ask. A real dj has power to make target ask him. That is what you concentrate on. She will not date anyone if you become her target. If you ask you seem like a desperate pig. She will not respect a desperate pig. Make her your own desperate pig.
 
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Exactly! A++ at least someone gets it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good post Sam. And bigappledj, while it's fun to get them to ask, DJ's are men of action and I'd rather take 5-6 mins to get her number and plan something than spend 10-12 getting her to ask me when I'm out sarging.

This is very crucial, if you think she likes you, she definatly likes you. It's ridiculous to believe anything else. By the way this concept is in the bible: http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000974.html so my hat off to you Sam.
 
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If you ask you seem like a desperate pig
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To anyone reading this, dont believe it lol. She'll respect you for asking :). However, if for some strange reason she does'nt give you her number, and then you keep asking her, thats when you will seem like a desperate pig
 
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It is crucial that she be the one who chases after you. The hierarchy is set early on in any relationship. Do you really want to give her the confidence of being the target? Think of all the problems this will lead to later on in the relationship. There are plenty of ways to get her to be more aggressive towards you. The thing is to take it as far as possible without directly asking her. Quick pickups always backfire in the end. String her along for a time. Keep her wondering where she stacks up in your eyes. Turn the tables on her!! Being blunt is always your enemy.
 
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NO! Women flirt. Men ask for the number and set up the date. This is how we show interest. Once again, WOMEN FLIRT and play games. We cut the bull****, and go after it.

Yeah, I realise this is pretty much in the bible and I paraphrase pook alot. But, I need to put it out there in my words, as I learn it. And hey, someone might appreciate my spin on it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:D hey thats a very good tip. thanks.
 
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so if I think a chick likes me 99 percent that means she does? are you really sure about that? im just curious.
 
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If you sincerely believe a chick likes you, and you have some evidence to back this up, and your head isn't in the sand, and your not just being a ****head, and your not a deluded syco or AFC.

Then yes, I would say there is a very strong chance she likes you. Most women (that I have come in contact with), will never make the first move, and will die waiting for you to. Well, they wont die, they will move on.
 
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sam3083 said:
If you like a girl, and you have even the slightest feeling she likes you, then 99.9% of the time she does (and NO, your 'special' case does not fall into the 0.1% of cases, thats reserved for deluded sycos).

Nothing else matters. Don't come on here and ask if she likes you. She does.

If you do nothing else ask her god damn number, she will give it to you. You will ask her to do something, and she will be happy to.

Or, you can wait, and wait and wait and wait. She will; get a boyfriend (not you), lose interest, leave, etc. I've lost way too many great girls, who were interested in me becasue I was too much of a wussy boy.

For the love of god, just ask her number, and ask her out. Every other tip is second to this. You can't do anything else (apply tips, etc) without grabbing your balls and actually asking her out.

JUST ASK HER OUT RIGHT NOW!!!! DONT YOU DARE PUT IT OFF FOR ANOTHER MOMENT!!!!!! everything rests on you asking her out as soon as you can
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Sometimes we forget just how simple this dating game is...and just how incredibly often and easy chemistry is to see and obtain with the right woman...
 
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