"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when to introduce kino on a first date?

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how long into the date should one wait before introducing some kino into the mix? don't want to do it too soon or too late.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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weak said:
how long into the date should one wait before introducing some kino into the mix? don't want to do it too soon or too late.
You should have kino when you first opened her, long before the date.

In other words, you're behind.
 

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weak said:
how long into the date should one wait before introducing some kino into the mix? don't want to do it too soon or too late.
You should KINO right away on a date. The longer you wait to initiate KINO the more uncomfortable it will be to make that move. If you look back on your past dates you will know this to be true.

Jay Lance
 

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Agreed, get comfortable with her and escalate a lot, that way at the end of the night it becomes natural and expected to hug and kiss, rather than nothing and then WHAM the whole lot at the end. Not saying the latter is impossible though, but it does feel more awkward from experience.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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