"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

When to go in for the kiss....

S

shark

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2005
Messages
252
Reaction score
0
Well this girl is into me, and i'm into her. We've hung out before, but this is the first time were hanging out where I KNOW she likes me and she kinda knows i'm interested. Do i just go in for the kiss when i feel like it? Or should I use a line like, "do you kiss on the first date". Yes=go for kiss, no=not.

Usually, the girls i've been with seemed to bring up the issue in a convo where they like said "are we going to do anything tonight" and we'd know we're hooking up. However, i guess i just need some reassurance on this one and i wont talk to her about it.

some help needed, this is for toniht...SOON!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

A

Anomalous

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
764
Reaction score
5
First you need to build her excitement, get her horny.

As for the kissing question, say, "Can I kiss you?" when she says yeah (if shes' into you and shes horny), YOU SAY, "THEN I' LL MAKE SURE TO DO THAT ONE DAY."

Don't kiss her 3 secs after you said this line. Build up her anticipation. Just tease her and later about 15 mins to 2 hours (whenever, BUT NEVER RIGHT AFTER YOU SAID THE LINE), if you really want to kiss her then this time DONT ASK JUST DO IT. The longer you wait to give her the kiss, AFTER YOU SAID THE LINE, THE MORE SHE WANTS IT.

GOOD LUCK AND LET US KNOW HOW IT GOES.!!
 
H

Holland

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2005
Messages
782
Reaction score
10
Age
39
Location
Holland
Use the 'kiss test' from DYD.
Make a comment/(compliment) about her hair and/or stroke it. If she 'allows'/likes this. Do it again. If she still likes it, she's ready to be kissed. Make sure you move slowly, but smoothly.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top