"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When to dump your gf

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1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

3) she never offers to pay for anything

4) she meets up with her orbiters

5) she acts "distant"

6) you're bored with her and you've found a better girl

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think the same could be said if you're married too perhaps not all those points. But some yes for sure
 

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No sex = Next

Disrespect = Next

Getting Drunk, Bar Slut = Next

Greedy With Money = Next
 

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Good list.

Women typically start doing the things listed above for one of 3 reasons:

1.) You lost frame. If a chick was disrespectful, acted distant and was on her phone a lot on a first date, would you go out with her again? The answer should be NO. Most chicks do not do these things early on, but they increase over time because YOU allow it. The longer you date the same chick, you start getting comfortable, lead less, put up with more and frame is lost. Over time you give in more and more to the point that you are in her frame, not vise versa. Women may act like they want power, but when you give it to them, they WILL lose interest. The remedy is to keep frame and the same level of expectations of what you expect from her from the first date throughout.

2.) Monkey branchers- Some women are just always looking for the next best option. She will be into you and come across as being the loyal, trustworthy and selfless person until something "better" triggers her eye. Nothing you can do about it other than spot the signs, push pull and start spending your attention elsewhere.

3.) She's just a wh0re- Plain and simple. Some women have no intentions on an exclusive relationship and will fvck anything that gives them the right amount of attention. There are many signs to recognize for this: provocative selfies on social media, attention wh0ring on social media, "guy friends" that they always say are friends only but doesnt take you around them, etc etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey guys... Long time no see!

Well, i'd like to thank you skynnyguy...

Since I've last logged in here I got single, got into a 2 years/half ltr, single again. Now I am dating once again... It was awesome for the first 2 months.
I thought that this time it was it. It ain't. All of the bellow is happening:

1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

4) she meets up with her orbiters (I'm inclined to believe)

5) she acts "distant"

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship​

I've decided to log in SoSuave, and by chance I've read your post.

Final call. Next!!

I don't know how was your journey for this past 4 years since we got here. But now we are older, wiser, and less inclined to hold on to women ****.

So once again, thanks to your post. It couldn't have been in a better time, And it couldn't have come from a better person!

Thanks again mate!
 

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Hey guys... Long time no see!

Well, i'd like to thank you skynnyguy...

Since I've last logged in here I got single, got into a 2 years/half ltr, single again. Now I am dating once again... It was awesome for the first 2 months.
I thought that this time it was it. It ain't. All of the bellow is happening:

1) she stops having sex with you

2) she stops respecting you

4) she meets up with her orbiters (I'm inclined to believe)

5) she acts "distant"

7) you feel like the weaker one in the relationship​

I've decided to log in SoSuave, and by chance I've read your post.

Final call. Next!!

I don't know how was your journey for this past 4 years since we got here. But now we are older, wiser, and less inclined to hold on to women ****.

So once again, thanks to your post. It couldn't have been in a better time, And it couldn't have come from a better person!

Thanks again mate!
Your getting disrespected brah? Walk away...

If you stay, she WILL eventually leave you anyway... it's a lose lose situation!

A woman who loves you, values you, appreciates you... Will not disrespect you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1.) You lost frame.
Only this, which encompasses all in everybody's list.

Whenever you find yourself in a damaged frame, walk away. She will either return thereby surrendering to your frame--or--she won't, which is best if your frame were already dead.
 

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Only this, which encompasses all in everybody's list.

Whenever you find yourself in a damaged frame, walk away. She will either return thereby surrendering to your frame--or--she won't, which is best if your frame were already dead.
Losing frame is normally the first domino to fall, thus creating the other issues to stack up. The reason that I listed it first!
 

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Dump... if she turns out to be a slut, aka public receptacle.

That's just nasty!:eek::(:confused:
 

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This pedastaling of women is sad af. Dump your gf under your judgement, not by her motives.
 

FwoGiZ

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Your #6 is literally monkey branching... :O
Why dump her cause you found another better one? When does this stop?
Just keep stackin em if you ask me ;P
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't over complicate things.

You walk away from women when they are no longer fun. That is all you need to remember.
This.

The whole 'break up' concept is only relevant if you are married really. Otherwise, you don't need to 'break up'. Just start banging other girls, and creating distance with the girl who is no longer enjoyable to be around.
 
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