"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi I approached a girl for her phone number and upon receiving it for a week I haven't made a move. This girl likes me and all, but is taking more than a week to call a bad thing? thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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call her when you want to.
3 day rule is crap, its petty and its holding off for the sake of holding off. if you dont have anything to do and are sitting around doing nothing waiting for 3 days to pass, that uber lame!
if you are really busy dont call her until you have time.
alternately, if you are busy, call her, this gives you an excuse to have a nice short sharp convo the sole purpose of which is to set up your next date.

you are shooting yourself in the foot by not doing anything.

a question to everyone: what is the longest you have held onto a number for and still hooked up? is there an upper limit before the number becomes stale or as long as you present yourself as a fun outgoing good catch can you wait as long as you want?
 
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