"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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When to call?

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Long story short, on this online dating site I messaged this girl, turns out we know a lot of the same people, she's quite interested in me and we got to talking about a casual date (grab some coffees chat). We didn't select a time or place but she gave me her number to call her up. I told her I'd call either that day or the next day. Today is the next day and I gotta call her.

Question is, what is a more opportune time to call? I was thinking 1ish but read elsewhere that closer to the evening is better?

I want to meet her as soon as possible because I don't want to spend time getting to know her online too much.

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Call her this evening sometime. Surely you have SOMETHING going on during the day that causes you to be busy until then. If not, then get something going on.
 
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