"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When to call with Xmas coming up?

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First post here, time to take an active aproach,
and join in on posting here.

I got a simple question, I got a number from
this cute little 19 year old on sunday, the dons
say call on wednesday, which I normally would,
but with Xmas this weekend, should I wait till
next week to buzz her? My thought is that it
will show that I have other priorities and reinforce
the scarcity principle....let me know, usually I
wouldn't hesitate, but this whole holidays thing
is throwing me for a curve....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude...you just answered your own question. You have other priorities :up: remember, girls are here to enhance your life, they are not your life.

**Think to yourself "Is she really worth my time?" because your time is precious, you are not just going to squander it away...ARE YOU!?
 
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i'm having the same problem with this chick.... i was thinking of calling this week but after analyzing the whole holidays scenario, I'm just going to wait 'till the first week of 2006 when the holidays is over and school is back again.

-Funk
 
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