"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when to call - need help

DJArlington

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Hey - I met a girl that lives a few floors down in my apartment complex last friday evening. Anyway - we basically chilled at my apartment for a while (cause she needed to measure my couch - long freakin story, don't know how i pulled it off) and she gave me her number. We clicked pretty well.

Should I call her tomorrow nite ? Is it to soon to ask for her a drink w/o other friend around ?

Thanks for the input.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Bishop

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Last Friday... I'd say it's not too early to call. If she's interested, she'll say yes. If she's not interested, then waiting a few more days isn't going to accomplish anything.
 

uniassign

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Why is everyone SO OBSESSED with using the phone?

She lives in your apartment block. Just go down and TALK TO HER. Why use the phone when you don't have to?
 

DJ Bishop

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Very good point, one that I completely overlooked. When living in such close proximity, do as Uni mentioned and knock on the door. Not only will you be able to see her facial expression once she sees it is you, but you'll already be there, instead of having to make plans for some time to meet up on the phone.

Good work, Uni.
 
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I would personally call her because she may have company or don't wish to invite you in at the moment. Call her today!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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