When to call her back?

[RoeCyris]

Last friday night i went out with a girl and her friend and well it was an interesting night to say the least. But at the end of the night we agreed that we were gonna go to this club on wednesday night. I ended up seeing her the next morning cuz her friend left her celly in my car and i didnt mention anything about our plan for wednesday night. in fact i didnt say much cuz i was so dead ass tired from being up so late the night before and i was a lil mad at her for something that happend so i was a little short with her.

My question is should i call her tomorrow (tuesday) to just be like "just wanted to make sure we were still on for tomorrow night. i already checked with my peoples [the plan from the start was to go out with some of my friends this time] and they want to come out with us."

or should i wait till wednesday afternoon and make our specific plans for that night i.e. time and place to meet - if i dont drive her (cuz im thinkin ima make her drive there and meet there, just in case i want to ditch her.... dont ask)


advice? i havn't spoken to her since saturday noonish when she picked up her friends **** and that was for only a few minutes.

 

[Climax]

hmm..

This really isnt a big deal, if u call her on Tuesday or Wednesday wont make much of a difference, but I would call her up on Tuesday evening and make final plans. If you call on Wednesday that might be a bit late because she might start thinking to herself that u decided to make other plans seeing that u never contacted her yet, or something like that, so just to be "safe", give her a call on Tuesday evening and make final plans or wateva u need to speak to her about. My 2c


Laterz...

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by RoeCyris
Last friday night i went out with a girl and her friend and well it was an interesting night to say the least. But at the end of the night we agreed that we were gonna go to this club on wednesday night. I ended up seeing her the next morning cuz her friend left her celly in my car and i didnt mention anything about our plan for wednesday night. in fact i didnt say much cuz i was so dead ass tired from being up so late the night before and i was a lil mad at her for something that happend so i was a little short with her.

My question is should i call her tomorrow (tuesday) to just be like "just wanted to make sure we were still on for tomorrow night. i already checked with my peoples [the plan from the start was to go out with some of my friends this time] and they want to come out with us."

or should i wait till wednesday afternoon and make our specific plans for that night i.e. time and place to meet - if i dont drive her (cuz im thinkin ima make her drive there and meet there, just in case i want to ditch her.... dont ask)


advice? i havn't spoken to her since saturday noonish when she picked up her friends **** and that was for only a few minutes.

I say call her today to mke sure everything's fine..There's nothing AFC about that. You are just calling to reconfirm plans.

 

[yunghova35]

Call her


Have a conversation i would start off by saying are we still on, but talk to here and soemwhere in there make sure she know that she has plans for tomm (wed)

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by RoeCyris
Last friday night i went out with a girl and her friend and well it was an interesting night to say the least. But at the end of the night we agreed that we were gonna go to this club on wednesday night. I ended up seeing her the next morning cuz her friend left her celly in my car and i didnt mention anything about our plan for wednesday night. in fact i didnt say much cuz i was so dead ass tired from being up so late the night before and i was a lil mad at her for something that happend so i was a little short with her.

My question is should i call her tomorrow (tuesday) to just be like "just wanted to make sure we were still on for tomorrow night. i already checked with my peoples [the plan from the start was to go out with some of my friends this time] and they want to come out with us."

or should i wait till wednesday afternoon and make our specific plans for that night i.e. time and place to meet - if i dont drive her (cuz im thinkin ima make her drive there and meet there, just in case i want to ditch her.... dont ask)


advice? i havn't spoken to her since saturday noonish when she picked up her friends **** and that was for only a few minutes.

The very second you start off by thinking/saying "should I", you are all ready exhibiting afc behaviour. Men are direct and don't apologize for it, women give hints.

 

[frivolousz21]

talk to her whenever the **** you want to call her!

that simple!

calling her is no sign of being needy unless u act it when u call!

 

[RoeCyris]

Re: Re: When to call her back?

Originally posted by Royal Elite
The very second you start off by thinking/saying "should I", you are all ready exhibiting afc behaviour. Men are direct and don't apologize for it, women give hints.

and yet you didnt directly answer my question.


Thanks to the chaps for the advice, im gonna call tonite just to confirm plans for tomorrow, it just makes sense.... which may be a mistake with most women

 

[Royal Elite]

Re: Re: Re: When to call her back?

Originally posted by RoeCyris
and yet you didnt directly answer my question.


Thanks to the chaps for the advice, im gonna call tonite just to confirm plans for tomorrow, it just makes sense.... which may be a mistake with most women

Thats my point you are a man, you dont need anyone's permission to call. That was the point that you seemed to miss.

 

[rjaudenes]

Hi Roe Cyris,

Im finally feel prepared to give some advice, so here go my 0,2 cents:


Im feel you are thinking too much and when this happens something is going bad, because you was probably thinking too much since the beggining, since you was with her at the club, etc.

Don't waste time loocking for a magical formula to do things going ok, feel what your guts are saying and act (Just do it) Note: Guts = internal voice you probably never heard

Remember, the connection with the Matrix are your guts and actions, thinking paralise your actions and make you create shadows where shadows don't exist.

Our brain is not prepared to read this kind of stuff!



Good Luck!


Thanks, Rafael from Brazil
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The best way to learn is going to the field and deal the demons inside us

 

[Rallfus]

When you do call say somthing like....

Hey. I'm going to be picking you up at blah blah time so be ready to hit the ground running.

Say it in a upbeat tone. That's this night is going to be something frickin mind blowing.

If she starts to back out or make and excuse, then tell her...

That's too bad you can't make it. It's going to be a hell of a night.