"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when to call back after a good first date?

rocco

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when do you call her back after a good first date and what should u say? this may be a reduntant question, but just wanted to put this out there and see what guys here would say in the given scenerio. thanx in advance :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Exactly 2 days, 12 hours and 39 minutes since you last saw her. Call her and let the phone ring 3 times, if she picks up before the 3rd ring, hang up and try again, if she doesn't pick up on the 3rd ring, hang up immediately and try again. Only call her twice, if you do not catch her on the 3rd ring, then she is not interested and you have to next her. Also, you automatically catch aids.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AKA FLEX

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I'm a big fan of the Sunday text message, followed by a mid-week call. Of course, this is not a hard and fast rule (I don't follow silly dating "rules" as every situation is different), but lately this is how I have been playing it out.
 
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