"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When to be sexual on conversation before date or during ?

Thechamp

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When to be sexual on conversation before date or during ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thechamp said:
When to be sexual on conversation before date or during ?
You can, but it be best to let her talk about it. Try to talk as little $hit as possible and deliver thru action.:cheer:
 

VladPatton

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Always. Whenever you want. If she associates you, your presence, your voice, or even your texts with sex; you're in, son.
 

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Yeah man I don't hide the fact that i'm a man and interested in sex. I'm that way off the bat so I can quickly weed out the girls not interested before I waste any time and money on them. Of course it has to be done tastefully, but a little sexual innuendo will let you know where you stand quickly and with no doubts. Best thing a guy can learn in my opinion is how to be sexual without coming off like a creep or perv.
 

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If you show sexual desire to a woman, she'll either:

1. Back off in shock because you showed you won't be an orbiter (won't follow your lead) Ultimately she stops responding.

2. Gets closer to you and is happy you just get it! (is following your lead)

If you don't show sexual desire, you are likely to become her friend/ emotional tampon/ beta orbiter/ fallback guy/ attention provider/ ego booster.

Don't come off like a creep, but what scenario is best for you (or any man for that matter)?

I choose the former. Because it weeds out chicks who aren't interested. And we know that uninterested chicks won't have sex with you!

Case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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