"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When to ask out after breakup please repond and quick!!

HBBforme

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Okay been getting to know my HBB for the last year or so. She has had this bf the whole time so i've only been lightly flirting with her and have since become friends. Any that last couple of weeks i could tell that she was having BF problems and lo and behold bf was cheating on her and it all blew up this week:cheer: and she has left him. Anyway when is it too soon to ask her out for say lunch? Idon't want to ask her out too soon but don't want to lose her either. It seems to have been a bad breakup also i have never talked to her about him i've always steered the consversation to being about her and misc. bs.

thanks in advance
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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STR8UP

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HBBforme said:
Okay been getting to know my HBB for the last year or so. She has had this bf the whole time so i've only been lightly flirting with her and have since become friends. Any that last couple of weeks i could tell that she was having BF problems and lo and behold bf was cheating on her and it all blew up this week:cheer: and she has left him. Anyway when is it too soon to ask her out for say lunch? Idon't want to ask her out too soon but don't want to lose her either. It seems to have been a bad breakup also i have never talked to her about him i've always steered the consversation to being about her and misc. bs.

thanks in advance
Monkeys swing branches. Put yours out there or someone else will.
 

broken dreams

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dude tell her you want to hang out...take her near your house and then bang her..theres no need to build rapport with her build reapport after sex and go in with confodence ..dont hesitate or second guess...the minute you do that its game over dude...she will end up f c cking the most manliest gfuy she will meet at this point...go for it and be that guy...ask her now text her now
 
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