Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When to ask for her number??

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Im aware of some advice that has been given over "asking for her number"

Ex:If she is attracted to you she will have no problem giving it, if she doesn't she might throw you the "I have a bf" line etc. etc.

I went to a friends party last week and I saw some girl that I was really attracted to, well the party finished and I didn't talk to her or do anything of that nature. ( I was with a girl that I brought at the time, not gf ) Some good eye-contact with her but that's about it. Well in a few weeks my friend is having another party at a club (table etc) and he said she will be there (they are friends). I am planning to talk to her introduce myself etc etc. Now this is where my question comes in.. If I am getting some good signs, basically see that she is interested in the conversation should I hold off on asking for her number?? hold it off till next time?? Maybe even tell my friend to talk to her for me?? Or ask it that night??
Holding it off sounds like something I would do, shows that Im not really desperate and I have other things ... What do you guys think??

Before answering I have some info about this girl ..
From what I have been told, she has been screwed over by guys (even though she is a HB10) She basically has been with the "*******s" and no "nice guys" ... sensitive and emotional in her experience from that ...
She also complains about not finding someone ... hmmm :D

What do you guys think??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd say Play it cool at the beggining of the party. Make some eye contact and see if you can't get her to come to you first. If it seems like she's the shy type or thats not about to happen casually enter yourself into a group conversation that she might be a part of. then from that isolate yourself with her. Lots of eye contact some funny jokes, some neg hits, some C+F etc. etc. If you wanna make yourself appear more worthy/mysterious you could after awhile say something like you have other plans or have to go meet a friend somewhere but that you'd like to continue your conversation with her sometime and get her number. OR hold out There is a very good chance if you do things right that she'll give you her number ( I always let her give me her number not ask for it) If it looks like she is the shy type there or u don't wanna wait around for her to give it without asking. Then just ask for it. Don't stress about it. And you know you might end up talking with this girl and realize there is no way in hell you want to ever talk or see her again. So My best advice is to just not think about this again until the party. Hope this helps some.

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