"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When to ask for her number??

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Im aware of some advice that has been given over "asking for her number"

Ex:If she is attracted to you she will have no problem giving it, if she doesn't she might throw you the "I have a bf" line etc. etc.

I went to a friends party last week and I saw some girl that I was really attracted to, well the party finished and I didn't talk to her or do anything of that nature. ( I was with a girl that I brought at the time, not gf ) Some good eye-contact with her but that's about it. Well in a few weeks my friend is having another party at a club (table etc) and he said she will be there (they are friends). I am planning to talk to her introduce myself etc etc. Now this is where my question comes in.. If I am getting some good signs, basically see that she is interested in the conversation should I hold off on asking for her number?? hold it off till next time?? Maybe even tell my friend to talk to her for me?? Or ask it that night??
Holding it off sounds like something I would do, shows that Im not really desperate and I have other things ... What do you guys think??

Before answering I have some info about this girl ..
From what I have been told, she has been screwed over by guys (even though she is a HB10) She basically has been with the "*******s" and no "nice guys" ... sensitive and emotional in her experience from that ...
She also complains about not finding someone ... hmmm :D

What do you guys think??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mpimpin

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I'd say Play it cool at the beggining of the party. Make some eye contact and see if you can't get her to come to you first. If it seems like she's the shy type or thats not about to happen casually enter yourself into a group conversation that she might be a part of. then from that isolate yourself with her. Lots of eye contact some funny jokes, some neg hits, some C+F etc. etc. If you wanna make yourself appear more worthy/mysterious you could after awhile say something like you have other plans or have to go meet a friend somewhere but that you'd like to continue your conversation with her sometime and get her number. OR hold out There is a very good chance if you do things right that she'll give you her number ( I always let her give me her number not ask for it) If it looks like she is the shy type there or u don't wanna wait around for her to give it without asking. Then just ask for it. Don't stress about it. And you know you might end up talking with this girl and realize there is no way in hell you want to ever talk or see her again. So My best advice is to just not think about this again until the party. Hope this helps some.

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