"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When to ask for a phone number.

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Hey people. New poster here.

Anyway, I was just curious about a situation I'm currently in. In my previous experiences, I would always have at least a class or 2 with the girl I was currently interested in to give me at least a decent amount of time to get to know her.

However, there is a girl I just met this year and she is cool and such, however I really dont get to see her that often. The only time I get with her is maybe about 10 minutes while waiting for early dismissal. How long should I wait to get her number?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Depends, you dont' see her often. What you should work on is getting her to be hapyp to see you. Then you ask her to coffee, and that you'll phone her (#).

Simple as that. Don't overcomplicate anything.
 
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Ask for the phone number a couple of weeks after getting her email.
 
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