"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When to ask for a phone number.

sleepness

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Hey people. New poster here.

Anyway, I was just curious about a situation I'm currently in. In my previous experiences, I would always have at least a class or 2 with the girl I was currently interested in to give me at least a decent amount of time to get to know her.

However, there is a girl I just met this year and she is cool and such, however I really dont get to see her that often. The only time I get with her is maybe about 10 minutes while waiting for early dismissal. How long should I wait to get her number?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Docs

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Depends, you dont' see her often. What you should work on is getting her to be hapyp to see you. Then you ask her to coffee, and that you'll phone her (#).

Simple as that. Don't overcomplicate anything.
 

DJ4Real

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Ask for the phone number a couple of weeks after getting her email.
 
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