I just noticed something. A girl I've been working on for a little while just repeated my name to me twice during a two second conversation. Now this is a trick I picked up from this board, doing it to them, but I was shocked when she did it to me. Interest Level has increased I'm guessing.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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More than likely it is. Play her game and do the same to her and watch her reaction. That'll let you know.
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"Disco, did you know a discos are for gay people?"
I also said your name twice!
I also said your name twice!
No, don't just assume that. I recently went out with a girl who did the same thing, used my name in conversation more often than usual. I figured that meant her interest was high. We went out a couple times, I called to set-up a third meeting and she declined with no counter-offer. I haven't heard from her since. Some people just have odd ways of speaking, I guess.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So just because you failed to do anything you're advising him to not try anything at all? Real nice...Originally posted by drZaius09
No, don't just assume that. I recently went out with a girl who did the same thing, used my name in conversation more often than usual. I figured that meant her interest was high. We went out a couple times, I called to set-up a third meeting and she declined with no counter-offer. I haven't heard from her since. Some people just have odd ways of speaking, I guess.
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DrZ is right. There are some women that do that out of habit. They're usually in sales, go figure.Originally posted by cestmoi
So just because you failed to do anything you're advising him to not try anything at all? Real nice...
I still say that playing the same game and then react to her actions. We all know that women can say anything but we can never be sure until we see if her actions align with what she says.
Ah, but it really depends on her BODY LANGUAGE when she SAID your name.
Did she have her hands down her pants with her eyes closed, moaning your name in sweet extacy?
Then she likes you.
Unless it was a Friday, or the 3rd, 12th, 16th, or 17th day of her cycle. Oh, yeah, this is only 50% accurate when there is any type of cat within 500 feet. 25% accurate when there is a dog within 6 feet.
However, if she was looking down and to the left with one eye, and up and to the right with another, BE CAREFUL, she wants to cut off your RIGHT foot and eat it on a sandwich.
Was she snarling your name through clenched teeth, brow furrowed with eyes shooting fire and ears shooting steam?
Then she does not like you.
Unless she has PMS, in that case, you should give her some Midol and chocolate and in two weeks or so (I think, but I could be wrong) you will catch her boffing your football player buddy in your parents room when they are out of town.
Women, huh?
Did she have her hands down her pants with her eyes closed, moaning your name in sweet extacy?
Then she likes you.
Unless it was a Friday, or the 3rd, 12th, 16th, or 17th day of her cycle. Oh, yeah, this is only 50% accurate when there is any type of cat within 500 feet. 25% accurate when there is a dog within 6 feet.
However, if she was looking down and to the left with one eye, and up and to the right with another, BE CAREFUL, she wants to cut off your RIGHT foot and eat it on a sandwich.
Was she snarling your name through clenched teeth, brow furrowed with eyes shooting fire and ears shooting steam?
Then she does not like you.
Unless she has PMS, in that case, you should give her some Midol and chocolate and in two weeks or so (I think, but I could be wrong) you will catch her boffing your football player buddy in your parents room when they are out of town.
Women, huh?
Yeah, signs mean nothing.
Tonight a girl excitedly introduced me to her roommate; "Oh Deep Dish! This is my roommate!" What does it mean? Absolutely jack squat nothing!, even though by the untrained observer it was a sign of interest worth 'investigating'.
Only when in times a woman bluntly says to you, "I want to suck your c0ck", only then does that mean she maybe wants you.
Tonight a girl excitedly introduced me to her roommate; "Oh Deep Dish! This is my roommate!" What does it mean? Absolutely jack squat nothing!, even though by the untrained observer it was a sign of interest worth 'investigating'.
Only when in times a woman bluntly says to you, "I want to suck your c0ck", only then does that mean she maybe wants you.
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LOL...yeah, you can't take anything as a concrete sign of interest. Sometimes girls grab my ass in the club...if I try to talk to them they instantly blow me off. Not even a kiss is a sure sign of anything. Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
Make her accept or reject you. That's her role in the relationship.
Make her accept or reject you. That's her role in the relationship.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Gotta admit, I have no experience whatsoever wiuth this. I've never noticed a woman repeating my name twice as a flirt , except when I'm banging the snot out of her.