"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When they press their chest into you

pvf94

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Frequently when I am at a local music venue ill get a woman standing next to me and they will often press their tits into my arm/elbow and hold it there.

Thing is the place is never so packed to where you need to be that close. I had one chick with huge boobs pressing her boob into my elbow last night and I was movin with the music the band was playing and I could actually feel her nipple getting hard as my elbow/arm was movin around with my body. She would not move away and she totally could have, I turned around and said "You know im not ignoring you?" haha, she got flushed in the face and introduced herself...ill be seeing more of her. :crackup:

This happens often, what's the deal? Do they know they are doing this? It seems to be their way of getting a vicarious fulfillment, while remaining innocent.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being_the_Don

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pvf94 said:
Frequently when I am at a local music venue ill get a woman standing next to me and they will often press their tits into my arm/elbow and hold it there.

Thing is the place is never so packed to where you need to be that close. I had one chick with huge boobs pressing her boob into my elbow last night and I was movin with the music the band was playing and I could actually feel her nipple getting hard as my elbow/arm was movin around with my body. She would not move away and she totally could have, I turned around and said "You know im not ignoring you?" haha, she got flushed in the face and introduced herself...ill be seeing more of her. :crackup:

This happens often, what's the deal? Do they know they are doing this? It seems to be their way of getting a vicarious fulfillment, while remaining innocent.

Of course they know they're doing it. Sometimes they'll pretend like thy're reaching for something just to rub their chest on you, or they'll just do it w/o any pretense at all. It's a very sexual move. Sometimes it's to get a rush out of you, other times it's because they want to escalate. :)
 
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