When they ask "What do you do for work?"

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I know this subject has been covered on the Don Juan forums countless times, but today I have a couple fishies on my line and one of em has asked this question. She works at 7-Eleven, just got off work. She's a hoe through and through, but late 20s so I let it slide. Sorta overweight, nose ring nice eyes fvcked up teeth good cheeks and face, long curls hair blonde, tats. So we are back n' forth, while she's at work and I'm running around a track at a high school in the blazing sun trying to beat my times (1.5 mile is getting worse! than a few weeks before haha but at least I'm out there doing it). She's very much laughing at our banter and I can tell she's DTF. So I go to the grocery store afterwards and pick up my usually greens apples watermelon bananas meat, get back to my F-250 and start texting her again in response to 3 from her and one of em is about work. I beat around the bush, you know, how were are supposed to do and make up something crazy off-the-wall (that just CAN'T be true) and she laughs of course, but then she persists and asks again what do you do? I just texted back that her getting off early in the day rocks (kinda sexually if you think about it - can mean both ways) and then that it is stable for 13 years and I'd rather not talk about my work as it's "top secret." That's the best I could think of to avoid her knowing where I work (too soon! I mean, I don't even know this b!tch...it's ok that I know where she works in a slum job but it's NOT ok for her to know where 'I' work about 10X higher value if you do the math). It's NOT ok. We can talk about 'fairness' all we want, but it's not ok. If she was on equal footing pay-wise or a little less, then I'd tell her.

Now, I've got another hoe lined up for tonight, but she's a single mom, tatted, a tad overweight as well, but What Can I Do? That's ALL I can get at the moment. The Well is DRY. The river's run dry. I need a fvck! BAD. But I'm afraid I might pick up something from one of these hoes. I'm AMAZED that I haven't caught any herpes from kissing the 30-40% trashy women I've kissed over the years. I must have a good immune system, knock on wood. Yes, I am dumpster-divin.
 

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Strangely enough I haven't had a woman ask me what I do for work in years. Even women in my social circles don't know what I do. Sometimes when we meet at a bar for happy hour, I am already there. And I see them fishing for my job by asking me "Did you get off early today?" And I would just nod and shrug. I also never pay for the tab. Someone in my circle always pays for me. It's been like this for years..decades even. I feel like my presence pays for itself, lol.

A female friend of mine finally couldn't stand the mystery and intrigue anymore so she pinned me down and interrogated me about my job. I told her "I am planning to create positive social change in the form of healthcare education for kids. I feel that adolescents in urban communities are under-educated about STD's. This is actually a true goal of mines. Where would I come up with the funding? Do I have enough professional clout to create social change in my community? That's none of her business, unless she was screening me for LTR material, in which I would just deflect it away. My "title" is that of a public servant of some sort. My purpose is beyond just working a 9-5 to make money so that I can impress women.

Sort of like back in the old days where men took on public titles. It's a class above the working class. Some of these men had money from inheritance. Or perhaps the land that they own that had oil. It's really nobody's business. However, my purpose is not for myself. I am doing it for the greater good according to my vision.

I have realized that in life, when your vision is great, things like money takes care of itself. Business opportunities appear, someone you know wants to sell you their business at a discount, a promotion opens up, etc. But if your ultimate vision in life is a 9-5 to pay the bills, then that's going to be the limit that you will reach. Your physical reality cannot be greater than your vision. So expand your vision.

This is why I don't give specific answers to women when they try to qualify me. My finances is none of their business. And they are more likely to try and entrap me into a relationship if they think my finances can benefit them somehow. It sets a bad precedent in the relationship. I just tell her what my vision is.
 
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I try to make a joke out of it.. I kill people.. You?
I make a joke about I am a professional...dog walker or frisbe golfer or doorbell ringer
 

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Btw, I saw a lambo (red) yesterday when I was playing tennis. Dude was 60 yrs old and all the women players there were wide-opened/kind to him. No house payment (like me but I'll NEVER have a lambo haha). Took a picture, I guess I'll start saying it's mine and show bishes the picture :)
 

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I make a joke about I am a professional...dog walker or frisbe golfer or doorbell ringer
I find being light hearted and very easy going helps a lot. I'd say, first, I kill people... Do you have anyone you need some assistance with (all with a smirk). Wait a few moments and then tell her what I really do. It's a really good ice breaker and sets a good tempo. Also, if she responds negatively, then you know to move on.
 

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Btw, I saw a lambo (red) yesterday when I was playing tennis. Dude was 60 yrs old and all the women players there were wide-opened/kind to him. No house payment (like me but I'll NEVER have a lambo haha). Took a picture, I guess I'll start saying it's mine and show bishes the picture :)
In the summer, you can rent an exotic for a few hundred bucks and pickup some gold diggers that would be DTF almost immediately. Just remember, to use a airBNB, fake name and BS background on yourself; as you'd never see them again (hopefully).
 

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next time say you are a porn producer, but serious wrap your little friend up, because serious here, even that girl we think is clean and neat, is not
 

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I grew up poor, and I was often embarrased about it as a kid. As an adult, I have learned to own it and never be ashamed of what you do or dont have in life. I always shut down that what do you do question right away. I work here and there, make my own way in life, and get by, but not much more. Your ghetto girls are all fantasizing about you possibly being rich. I'd do the opposite of most lying guys and just pull that rug out from under them right away. Then they can cut out the romance fairy tale crap. If she likes being around you and is dtf, then that is all you need. I think poor people spend more time fvcking, just because it is free entertainment. And even if I did have a good job and money, I would still tell the same story. Sex comes faster when she has given up on the idea of you as her provider.
 

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I grew up poor, and I was often embarrased about it as a kid. As an adult, I have learned to own it and never be ashamed of what you do or dont have in life. I always shut down that what do you do question right away. I work here and there, make my own way in life, and get by, but not much more. Your ghetto girls are all fantasizing about you possibly being rich. I'd do the opposite of most lying guys and just pull that rug out from under them right away. Then they can cut out the romance fairy tale crap. If she likes being around you and is dtf, then that is all you need. I think poor people spend more time fvcking, just because it is free entertainment. And even if I did have a good job and money, I would still tell the same story. Sex comes faster when she has given up on the idea of you as her provider.
Interestingly put. Has been my experience too, comes faster when it's just in the now no future no past.
 

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I know this subject has been covered on the Don Juan forums countless times, but today I have a couple fishies on my line and one of em has asked this question. She works at 7-Eleven, just got off work. She's a hoe through and through, but late 20s so I let it slide. Sorta overweight, nose ring nice eyes fvcked up teeth good cheeks and face, long curls hair blonde, tats. So we are back n' forth, while she's at work and I'm running around a track at a high school in the blazing sun trying to beat my times (1.5 mile is getting worse! than a few weeks before haha but at least I'm out there doing it). She's very much laughing at our banter and I can tell she's DTF. So I go to the grocery store afterwards and pick up my usually greens apples watermelon bananas meat, get back to my F-250 and start texting her again in response to 3 from her and one of em is about work. I beat around the bush, you know, how were are supposed to do and make up something crazy off-the-wall (that just CAN'T be true) and she laughs of course, but then she persists and asks again what do you do? I just texted back that her getting off early in the day rocks (kinda sexually if you think about it - can mean both ways) and then that it is stable for 13 years and I'd rather not talk about my work as it's "top secret." That's the best I could think of to avoid her knowing where I work (too soon! I mean, I don't even know this b!tch...it's ok that I know where she works in a slum job but it's NOT ok for her to know where 'I' work about 10X higher value if you do the math). It's NOT ok. We can talk about 'fairness' all we want, but it's not ok. If she was on equal footing pay-wise or a little less, then I'd tell her.

Now, I've got another hoe lined up for tonight, but she's a single mom, tatted, a tad overweight as well, but What Can I Do? That's ALL I can get at the moment. The Well is DRY. The river's run dry. I need a fvck! BAD. But I'm afraid I might pick up something from one of these hoes. I'm AMAZED that I haven't caught any herpes from kissing the 30-40% trashy women I've kissed over the years. I must have a good immune system, knock on wood. Yes, I am dumpster-divin.
Dude, you need to aim higher man. It'd not worth dumpster divin' for da herp.
 

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I grew up poor, and I was often embarrased about it as a kid. As an adult, I have learned to own it and never be ashamed of what you do or dont have in life. I always shut down that what do you do question right away. I work here and there, make my own way in life, and get by, but not much more. Your ghetto girls are all fantasizing about you possibly being rich. I'd do the opposite of most lying guys and just pull that rug out from under them right away. Then they can cut out the romance fairy tale crap. If she likes being around you and is dtf, then that is all you need. I think poor people spend more time fvcking, just because it is free entertainment. And even if I did have a good job and money, I would still tell the same story. Sex comes faster when she has given up on the idea of you as her provider.
Similar and I feel you. I just tell them I work with animals..
 

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Dude, you need to aim higher man. It'd not worth dumpster divin' for da herp.
I fvcked her that night and I felt a little gross doing it (the main thing is the smokers breath and voice can't stand that), she had a nice pvssy though her being way too overweight for my standards. I've had worse about 9 years ago I'd say but that was a 3-some. Anyway, I fvcked her long and hard and almost raw, just nibbling around her lips, but never going in full monty, slipped on the Crown rubber I brought and went to town. I'm still feeling the horrible effects of having fvcked her almost 2 weeks ago. Do I regret it? eh, nah, it was an experience though bad, I mean she Loved me and wants to continue hooking up, but I ignore of course. She'd be decent if she lost weight even still she's hard rode I don't want her. She was poor as fvck run down apartment not much furniture nothing nice too total mismatch but I was horny. It just shows one more experience of what I do NOT want in a woman, but I got laid nonetheless, and apparently she was clean cause as I feel/look really fine several days later. I almost went in her raw though, but my larger brain took over and said it's not worth it. With a slim hot chick it would have been of course to go a little further, but still I need to catch myself and wrap it up always. I need to get in touch with other girls reunite, girls I know.
 

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I find it rude when they ask you what do you do? of course, I guess I open that question up when I say, "I'm fine, just home on day off" to their "how are you?" I tell them a general answer and then they say, "like how? yes I'm a nurse" so she wants to know specifically what I do and quite frankly I do not want to tell her specifically WHERE I work and what I do. I don't even KNOW her! So she thinks I'm avoiding the question so she ghosts.
 

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Unless you wanna support her and her/your potential kids then get the **** out of there.
 

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