When the girl checks out....

[expos]

Stumbled across this today:

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/ladies...p-doing-when-you-emotionally-checked-out.html

This outta give a few DJ's some info on what makes a woman check out of a long term relationship. Reading some of what they post is truely frightening.

A lot of them want to us to behave like complete betas to maintain the relationship.

Read the thread...pretty fascinating stuff...

 

[JoeMarron]

We know that much of what a woman says she wants in a relationship is bullsh!t. We also know that when a woman checks out, instead of desperately trying to fix it, its best to do your own thing and either let her come back to you or end the relationship. I don't see much use of that thread from a DJ perspective. It is a good reminder that you can be too much of a jerk though.

 

[cervantesscthree]

Interesting . . . but they're all very similar signs, and very obvious, to the eyes of a Don Juan anyway

 

[PlayHer Man]

Female hypergamy in full swing.

It sounds like all these women are saying their husbands weren't big enough fags. At the same time.. we all know that if those men had been bigger beta fags.. those women would of lost interest just the same.

Regarding when a woman loses interest in a man.. its almost always when she loses respect for him. If you look close you'll see women have a strong attraction to men they respect. Once they lose respect.. their vagina stops tingling.

So what makes a woman lose respect? Basically showing any weakness she doesn't approve of. If she believes a "real man" must be high up in his career.. then she will lose respect for him if he gets laid off. If she believes a "real man" must be able to beat up other men.. then she will lose respect for him every time he loses a fight.

That's how it works gentlemen.

 

[yyc12]

It's always funny in all these situations it's never the woman's fault. It's always the man that needs to change or else, . Never occurs to any of them to look inward and at least try to identify whatever role they're playing in the demise of the relationship. It always takes TWO. Over time, you realize that execting other people to change is ridiculous. If something isn't working, instead of expecting the other person to change, you need to change how you feel about whatever it is you have an issue with or simply end the relationship.

 

[expos]

It's always funny in all these situations it's never the woman's fault. It's always the man that needs to change or else, . Never occurs to any of them to look inward and at least try to identify whatever role they're playing in the demise of the relationship. It always takes TWO..

That thread made me sick to my stomach. How can any guy live up to such impossible standards?

A lot women go into marriage thinking the guy is absolutely perfect and without a single fault. However....

You can make a ton of money - but it won't be enough...

You can be a great looking guy - but the guy she works with is a tad better looking...

You can be alpha - but the guy down the street is more alpha...

Hypergamy indeed. These women can drop you fast for the most ridiculous reasons. I'm finding it harder and harder to even consider marriage, because respect can be lost so quickly even if you think you are doing everything right.

 

[muhnkee]

Don't you love how women get away with vague **** like "lost interest" and "no longer attracted"?

Unless the guy puts on 100 lbs, please explain your answer more fully, ladies. I double dog dare ya.