I hate you because you speak the truth.f283000 said:They will ignore your texts, your calls, forget you even exist even if you had given her the time of her life for months or even years. That's how quickly a woman will erase you from her life the moment she loses attraction for you.
For guys it's a different story. They come begging on sosuave for help on how to get over their ex and end up joining the "no contact thread"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When the Gina stops tingling
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- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Yes spineless men and women behave this way. If I am not interested in a woman, I am honest about it. I don't start behaving like a moron and being unnecessarily mean to someone.bigneil said:
I agree, nobody is saying a woman has to be interested in you or should be interested, if a woman is interested she should just be honest instead of being a mean little sh*t. Because she'll soon come to realise that I also have an incredibly nasty streak inside of me too.
Why are you LETTING them "have control?" If I divorce my wife before her 5 years here are up, back she goes to the Philippine ghetto that she came from! That is US immigration law, so she treats me very nicely. So will the one I get after this one becomes a US citizen.
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Well stated! They feel no guilt about it, even enjoy it.runner83 said:
Women have many of the traits of a psychopath, Im being serious!
Male psychopaths get all the bad PR and statistically men are more pre disposed to psycopathy than women....but having experienced the extremes of a relationship, as well as observing the dynamics of others, I genuinly believe womens nature is closely aligned to that of the psychopath. charming, sexy, promise the world then dismiss you as one of satans offspring when she decides its time and without warning.
Guys need to resist getting too attached, this is why many many guys get turned over and burnt to hell. never let a woman have so much power over you.
Male psychopaths get all the bad PR and statistically men are more pre disposed to psycopathy than women....but having experienced the extremes of a relationship, as well as observing the dynamics of others, I genuinly believe womens nature is closely aligned to that of the psychopath. charming, sexy, promise the world then dismiss you as one of satans offspring when she decides its time and without warning.
Guys need to resist getting too attached, this is why many many guys get turned over and burnt to hell. never let a woman have so much power over you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I dunno as soon as I notice a drop in interest, my interest drops too. If she wants to fade away then let her fade man. I stop thinking about her like a friend and more like a sexual object. I start being interested in the other women in my life, going out with my friends more. I don't sweat it, I try and stay busy.
I have a policy in my life where I never quit but always try to make things worth while for me. You never know what it's going to turn into in the end anyways so why quit? For example if I have a ****ty job, rather than just quitting i'll start changing how I work to make it worth while for me. Whatever I can get away with basically. I'll take longer lunches, try less, eat shiz on the internet more. If I have a good job I play straight ball. Same with the ladies if she stops making me happy i'll stop taking her out, i'll stop calling her as much, I won't pay attention to her, start giving my friends more priority, stop going down on her before sex, stop making sure she reaches orgasm, less kissing and romance more straight fvcking.
I start doing this as soon as I notice any drop in IL. Nothing a girl hates more than breaking up with someone who really just doesnt give a dam and is having a great time with their life. Not only that but after she leaves shes not thinking "oh yeah i dumped that poor guy" or "i devastated him" or whatever other BS they talk about while sipping mimosas. Shes won't even be sure who's breaking up with who if your quick enough.
It increases the chances of her coming back, then you can make her earn your affections again.... if you ever really let her that is. This can be alot of fun. You have to make the best of everything in life man...
I have a policy in my life where I never quit but always try to make things worth while for me. You never know what it's going to turn into in the end anyways so why quit? For example if I have a ****ty job, rather than just quitting i'll start changing how I work to make it worth while for me. Whatever I can get away with basically. I'll take longer lunches, try less, eat shiz on the internet more. If I have a good job I play straight ball. Same with the ladies if she stops making me happy i'll stop taking her out, i'll stop calling her as much, I won't pay attention to her, start giving my friends more priority, stop going down on her before sex, stop making sure she reaches orgasm, less kissing and romance more straight fvcking.
I start doing this as soon as I notice any drop in IL. Nothing a girl hates more than breaking up with someone who really just doesnt give a dam and is having a great time with their life. Not only that but after she leaves shes not thinking "oh yeah i dumped that poor guy" or "i devastated him" or whatever other BS they talk about while sipping mimosas. Shes won't even be sure who's breaking up with who if your quick enough.
It increases the chances of her coming back, then you can make her earn your affections again.... if you ever really let her that is. This can be alot of fun. You have to make the best of everything in life man...