You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Problem is that in the U.S., the vast majority have zero access to any dirt or seeds or anything to plant and grow anything, let alone protect it from the roving bands of near starving to death folks that will do ANYTHING to get some food.Bible_Belt said:I read that after the Yugoslav war, where we bombed everything and didn't rebuild it, roughly half of the people were existing off of sustenance agriculture. That was pioneer life a hundred years ago - forty acres and a mule, some chickens, and maybe a cow or a couple pigs if you were really doing well. Combine that with your full-time labor, and you'd probably get by. Without an economy, that is the life that most of us would be reduced to.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lol this sounds utterly ridiculous but I actually kind of agree with it. People like to whine about blacks, hispanics, and muslims when it's two billion asians that are going to be taking over. There's no way in hell the west will ever be able to compete once China and India gets their sh!t together.LiveFreeX said:There isn't any crash coming... the Chinese are going to bail you guys out hardcore. They are already doing it, you are just ignoring it or you don't know about what's happening. The uber rich Chinese are walking into America and buying up property left, right and center. Infact quite a few of my ex-students brag about the houses they've bought up in California.
Likely, America will just be up for sale to whomever has money, right now its the Chinese, in 30 to 50 years, Vietnam and India will probably have a chunk of that money. There are 1.5 billion people in China and about half of them have better employment than people in the USA, scary thought right. Well the top 10% are buying up all your properties and sending their children to your universities. We are talking 150 MILLION people with money to buy real estate and fuel the economy. If you're smart you'll start learning mandarin now and figure out a service or product you can sell to them. They ARE coming.
its just the world self-correcting and maybe one day the Chinese will have a website with a guy posting to 'not date Chinese Women'. Guys will be talking about how the poor women of America just want to marry and fvck a Chinese man for his money etc etc. Haha, no really this will happen. If anything you'll be looking at Looper's America or Elysium where the pollution in China is preferable over the quality of life in America. The world is changing and those who don't change with it will be left behind in the dust. You can cry, scream and stockpile guns but none of that will save you. The ability to make money and provide a valuable service to others is the only thing that will keep you from ending up in the gutter. There aren't going to be roving bands of humans, infact I think people are going to be confined to their houses and martial law will keep them there. Robotic drones are already flying over head, wait till they have tank tread drones rolling out on the street ala Terminator 3. All this stockpiling is just non-sense, it will last you maybe 6 months tops, what happens when the authorities get wind of you hoarding food or ammo, they will step in and TAKE IT BY FORCE. You might be able to kill a man with a shot gun, but a drone flying at 50,000 feet, can bullseye you within 30 seconds. You think you can live underground? Just roll a couple canisters of tear gas into your air vents and problem solved. Found some other way to live off the grid? Not without access to women and a woman is a social creature, she isn't going to want to spend the rest of her life in a cage. The best way to prep for the coming disaster? Become a doctor, farmer or highly skilled trades man and figure out how to service the rich better.
I wouldn't hold your breath on that one. China is one big bubble just waiting to pop. They spend most of their armies resources putting down internal riots.JoeMarron said:There's no way in hell the west will ever be able to compete once China and India gets their sh!t together.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
n00bPimp said:It can crash more than this?
I think we're in a feces hole all ready, can't imagine how we can sink even lower.
You ain't seen nothing yet. They say civilized to anarchy only takes 3 days of an empty stomach. More Americans are on welfare than working full time. What do you think is going to happen in the cities when the leeches run out of other peoples money to buy food?n00bPimp said:It can crash more than this?
I think we're in a feces hole all ready, can't imagine how we can sink even lower.
This.Who Dares Win said:Small towns, avoid the big cities since you need space to grow your food and you want to avoid the herd of people raiding around.
Plus a decent amount of firepower is going to be necessary to defend whatever you have, best thing would be to stick with like minded people and create an enclave.
If you remain in big cities you have to completely rely on somedoby else, plus I would avoid any place run from a distopic government or ethnic gangs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I watched The Walking Dead. I know how to do thisSmall towns, avoid the big cities since you need space to grow your food and you want to avoid the herd of people raiding around.
Plus a decent amount of firepower is going to be necessary to defend whatever you have, best thing would be to stick with like minded people and create an enclave.
If you remain in big cities you have to completely rely on somedoby else, plus I would avoid any place run from a distopic government or ethnic gangs.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.