"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's been about a month since I've started at the gym with a personal trainer and nutritionist and all that. This is the first consistant work out program I've ever done, I'm keeping it up for five days each week and about a hour and a half each day.

I have noticed two things so far:

1.) My energy level has gone up; by that I don't mean I have more energy at the end of the day but I'm just more vibrant than I normally would be

and...

2.) My sex drive has gone up; much like my energy level it's not like I have more frequent sexual feelings, instead I have
stronger sexual feelings when I do have them.

Actually that pretty much goes for all my "arousal" emotions; anger, excitment, etc. are all more intence when I experience them.

Is this normal, or am I finally coming unhinged? Has anyone else had this experience and how did it go for them?

If my sex drive keeps going the way it's going and getting stronger and stronger I'm gonna wind up raping someone. :eek: :rolleyes: j/k But I can see it getting rather out of hand.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Welcome to the world of being a man.

Hope you enjoy it :)

The same happened to me. Now I've not been working out in the last week and a half-ish it's coming back down... I miss the heightened awareness :(
 
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Your testosterone might be increasing as a result of working out.
 
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I've started working out on a serious level lately and have noticed the same thing happening. For me, however, this is not a bad thing since it might help me shake my nice guy image and help me convey more sex appeal.
 
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watch what happens if you try to cut up... your sex drive will fall tremendously.

I was worried about week 6 or so till my calories came back up after week 10... then it all went awesome again ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeppers, its all characteristics of Testosterone. Congrats, you must be hitting it pretty hard in the gym and doing the right things. Squats are probably the best for the sex drive; your glutes and legs have the biggest muscles of your body, and big muscles means big releases of all kinds of good chemicals.

Screw Viagra, save some money and hit a gym.
 
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