SackOfFlesh
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2021
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- Age
- 25
I was out this weekend at some park at a book fair w a girl and another girl I'm seeing apparently saw me there. I sent a pic of a book I got and she said something like oh I thought you got that at the book fair and then said I thought you were having fun. I said if you saw me you should have said hi. She said you were far and I didn't want to. These texts aren't important I'm just giving some context.
I know this isn't a big deal because I haven't given any signals to either of them that I wanted to be exclusive by any means whatsoever, but seeing other people also isn't something I explicitly talked about with them. Even though I say I don't care what girls do when they're not with me, I probably would feel little a bit down if I saw someone I was seeing out having a great time with another guy, and I'm sure that the girl felt a similar way.
As of right now nothing really happened, but I would not be surprised if the girl that saw me out will be less intimate with me in the future. How should I go about approaching this? Basically I want to keep what we had going, and I feel like this situation puts that at risk. It's basically all speculation as of now, but regardless of this specific situation, I think the answers here could be of value to this community in general.
Update: asked her if she was comfortable with it, she said she didn't know but its my choice and she respects it, I said i would be honest with her and enjoyed her, everything is fine, she is still flirting and asked what I was doing this weekend
I think it would have been better to not have asked her anything, what do you guys think
I know this isn't a big deal because I haven't given any signals to either of them that I wanted to be exclusive by any means whatsoever, but seeing other people also isn't something I explicitly talked about with them. Even though I say I don't care what girls do when they're not with me, I probably would feel little a bit down if I saw someone I was seeing out having a great time with another guy, and I'm sure that the girl felt a similar way.
As of right now nothing really happened, but I would not be surprised if the girl that saw me out will be less intimate with me in the future. How should I go about approaching this? Basically I want to keep what we had going, and I feel like this situation puts that at risk. It's basically all speculation as of now, but regardless of this specific situation, I think the answers here could be of value to this community in general.
Update: asked her if she was comfortable with it, she said she didn't know but its my choice and she respects it, I said i would be honest with her and enjoyed her, everything is fine, she is still flirting and asked what I was doing this weekend
I think it would have been better to not have asked her anything, what do you guys think
