When sleeping at her place is the only option

[Aware]

I have a buffer that I need help with overcoming.

For various logistic reasons I cannot bring women to my place, nor I have my own car. The good is that this situation is going to last only few months. The bad - I planned to use this time to significiantly improve my game.

There seems to be a really low chance of a bang on a first date. I figured I should plan ahead, learn where a girl lives, set up a second date closer to her place, walk her home then make some bull**** excuse to get in if she doesn't invite me first (like wanting to use a toilet).

It obviously is going to decrease the chance in numbers game, but I can deal with it.

I need some insight from more experienced DJs.

 

[Dgwizdal]

I figured I should plan ahead, learn where a girl lives, set up a second date closer to her place, walk her home then make some bull**** excuse to get in if she doesn't invite me first (like wanting to use a toilet).

That's it. No big deal - even in having my own place sometimes I go back to theirs for the hell of it.

 

[salinechow]

What Dg said. Never a problem. Actually easier. They feel way more comfortable at their place. Youre fine. Just keep thinking on your feet and never get down if you dont get the invite. It happens. Yet, if they like you, there will be no mistake and you will be invited up. I am 100% so far. Both times I traveled for a date the girl invited me to spend the night without any BS excuse. Youll be fine.