“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When should I call?

Captain Ramen

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Here is the situation:
I met this girl last Wednesday night. I sat down next to her friend and then started to hit on her. I know she was/is interested. The problem, which is not a problem at all, is that I am in South America for the next three weeks on business. I left on Saturday. I usually wait to call at least 5 days and have never had a problem doing this; I feel that three weeks will be too long to wait. I dropped the hint in the friend's ear that I would be overseas for the next few weeks but didn't tell the girl I was attracted to, mostly because our conversations(me and hot girl had light-hearted topics instead of the work, career, interests b.s.). I got the girl's number without any hesitation and her cheeks even flushed when I asked, so I am confident she wants/wanted a piece.I would've stayed and tried to get some that night but I had a f**king conference call at 8:30 the next morning. So should I call her while I am overseas or should I just wait till I get home(I have a company card so I won't be paying for it)? I travel frequently so similar situations have happened but previously it was either a one night stand or I had actually taken the girl out before heading overseas for the majority of a month. Just looking for opinions.

Wrap it up,

Captain Ramen
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

realsmoothie

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You better call while you are overseas. Does it cost that much? Three weeks is too long, even if you're in the cast of Swingers.
 

crowes22

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Personally, I'd wait til you return to call, we both know her friend will tell her what the deal is, you can count on that, let her wait. Plus you're in SA, your'e nailing latinas, she is thinking this and hoping she'll be next.

Good luck.
 
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