"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When should I call?

Captain Ramen

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Here is the situation:
I met this girl last Wednesday night. I sat down next to her friend and then started to hit on her. I know she was/is interested. The problem, which is not a problem at all, is that I am in South America for the next three weeks on business. I left on Saturday. I usually wait to call at least 5 days and have never had a problem doing this; I feel that three weeks will be too long to wait. I dropped the hint in the friend's ear that I would be overseas for the next few weeks but didn't tell the girl I was attracted to, mostly because our conversations(me and hot girl had light-hearted topics instead of the work, career, interests b.s.). I got the girl's number without any hesitation and her cheeks even flushed when I asked, so I am confident she wants/wanted a piece.I would've stayed and tried to get some that night but I had a f**king conference call at 8:30 the next morning. So should I call her while I am overseas or should I just wait till I get home(I have a company card so I won't be paying for it)? I travel frequently so similar situations have happened but previously it was either a one night stand or I had actually taken the girl out before heading overseas for the majority of a month. Just looking for opinions.

Wrap it up,

Captain Ramen
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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realsmoothie

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You better call while you are overseas. Does it cost that much? Three weeks is too long, even if you're in the cast of Swingers.
 

crowes22

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Personally, I'd wait til you return to call, we both know her friend will tell her what the deal is, you can count on that, let her wait. Plus you're in SA, your'e nailing latinas, she is thinking this and hoping she'll be next.

Good luck.
 
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