"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When should I call girl?

j0n024

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Hey guy's I need some help again :rolleyes: .
I got this girls number today and said I would call her Sunday at 9 to do something togethor, What should I do? Should I call her and set something up or should I call her and say that I have something to do and schedule it next week? Thanks for all adivce.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It seems you care about this person. That's your first mistake right there.

You should have a few other numbers or prospects so you wont care too much about this one.

Thus, do not call her to please her or worry about losing her, call her because you want to or because you feel like it and have nothing better to do and dont worry how it goes.
 

Jaxon

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When you get a number never tell them that you'll call, let alone the day and time. After getting the number you should say something like "cool, see ya", without telling her you'll call.

This way she will be wondering whether or not she'll hear from you. Since you told her a specific day and time you'd call, I would not call her on that day at all. Call her Monday or Tuesday night and if she asks why you didn't call her Sunday, tell her you were busy. And DON'T apologize.
 

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hehe ok I gotcha, But the only reason I look like I "Care" is because this is actually my first Number close!!!!! I dont care about the girl only to fvk her but other then that I dont give a **** about, ok I'll call her Monday and set up something later on the only thing I dont know about is how can you tell if she forget about if she does do I just say nevermind and hang up or what?
 

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I got excited, I thought the title said "When should I get a call girl?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hehe ok I gotcha, But the only reason I look like I "Care" is because this is actually my first Number close!!!!! I dont care about the girl only to fvk her but other then that I dont give a **** about, ok I'll call her Monday and set up something later on the only thing I dont know about is how can you tell if she forget about if she does do I just say nevermind and hang up or what?


Wrong attitude dude.
Don't go around using chicks.
That just makes you a fvcking sh1t head.
Remember shes a human being just like you.
If she knew your agenda and wasn't a slut
you get nothing and deservedly so.

If you got her number like on a monday then wait till like thusday
to call her so you don't look desperate and set up a date.
 
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